So this is a bit hard for me, so I just found out I am overweight/obese. I was so shocked because I am not that big. I was always normal weight until I took the pill which messed me all up and gained 10 pound until I found the right one. Then we moved to the states and I couldn't work (visa stuff) which was really depressing, because I always worked and staying home was hard for me, so when I recently started to go to the gym I was upset to see that I gained another 10 pounds 😖 (no scale at home). My period hasn't shown up for awhile now and I really hoped I was pregnant, but the test was negative. I have to go back to the doctor next week to see if my weight is the reason for not having my period. I am so sad because we just decided to try for a baby and now we have to wait 😪 I just feel like crying all the time.