not sure what feels worse 1. being single and lonely or 2. being married and lonely.

yup very sad. @pooh2197

aint that the truth...sad that we usually put others first...@jomommaclark,

I think that's why they say we need to take care of ourselves first bc Lord knows nobody else will. @pooh2197

i hate other stuff...i just wanna come first jyst once @jomommaclark

brad was busy with other stuff all weekend. we didn't get to spend any time together. he did however go grocery shopping and did the dishes. @pooh2197

i thought this would be a nice weekend...at one point he said oh i forgot you are pregnant and picked the lid off the ground...how the heck can you foget...he was very distant and we hadnt seen each other in 2 weeks...@jomommaclark,

yeah that's what I'm saying too! he's always there for everyone else but me. @mommytoaz

yeah that's what I'm saying too! he's always there for everyone else but me. @mommytoaz

i completely understand im 38 weeks and HUGGGE, i can't bend over let alone put on socks, it would just be nice to have him around to help with the simple things or even conversation@jomommaclark

the crazy thing about mine is i have a little over a week half before im due, you'd think he would keep his phone by / answer it because i could go into labor anytime, nope he'll finish his basketball game and get back to me when he's done.

yup and on top of that I'm 34 weeks pregnant and can't do everything I normally do and he has no clue that I need help no matter how often I ask. @mommytoaz

smh it ridiculous, its like they forget we're human beings and need some sort of attention. @jomommaclark

@mommytoaz,

mine just stands outside or goes to our neighbors house. leaves me all alone. he's gone from 630am till 5pm.

it does, like what is a significant other for if this is the case ? if hubby isn't at work he dedicates his time to basket ball, mind you he works 13-14 hour shifts

I feel so distant

it sucks @mommytoaz

definitely number 2, im not married but im engaged and i have been woth my spouse 6 years and geeeeeez im feeling this affect right now !! @jomommaclark