No judging here: But please tell me you mommies get irritated when your baby daddy smokes weed.

I would not be tolerating that from my husband. He did one time and I made sure he wouldn't again.

@mommiesworld, it's just he needs to get his life together. He WILL NOT be smoking when the baby is here or we WILL be leaving. He needs to figure out how to stay sober. So irritated right now.

Yep! Just stick to what you feel. Don't bend rules for him

My husband smokes. Not all day, but almost daily. It doesn't bother me at all. It has no negative impact on his personality or our relationship. Also, he steps outside to smoke and doesn't do it near me.

@mommiesworld, I'm just trying real hard to make it work with this guy for the baby. Thanks girl

My S/O is an police officer so he doesn't smoke weed nor ever has .

he acts like a dumbass before he smks it so I have to deal with him I feel like I have a baby and one on the way

@varduim, it's just, I've smoked weed before and it made me not care about much of anything. I seen the way it impacted my actions especially when I quit smoking. But that's good he steps outside and doesn't smoke near you. Mine does.. In the apartment. And it smells like weed constantly 😓

@elenaj, see mine is going to school for criminal justice. So he is gonna have to quit smoking weed at some point... Or maybe it will influence him to quit?

If he is going for any law enforcement type positions , they may not accept him because he has smoked . And they base it off how long ago he stopped .

Everyone handles it differently I think, so it may not affect him in the same way it did for you. If you think it makes him act more careless, have you tried talking to him about it and how it concerns you? I also smoked before pregnancy, and was always responsible and just about normal, only more calm. But, he really shouldn't do it near you. I don't know the effects of the secondhand smoke, but it's not a risk you should take. Tell him to at least do it outside or in another room.

Oh my gosh. This post represents my life lol mine acts like a complete idiot.. It runs his whole life. Not only that it makes him drift away and stay to himself.. He doesn't see what it's doing to us. I already told him he's losing me. Sadly I don't think that will make him change

yes!!! so annoying!!