I know the feeling. I have my family upset with me not being married and having soon to be 2 children before marriage. In all honesty it makes you a bad person. Being married doesn't make you a better person having a baby after marriage either. As long as you and you fiance/boyfriend take responsibility and raise your child that's all that matters and what's important. Its your life not theirs so don't let it get to you. You'll get married when you and your SO are ready.

Girllllll, people will try to bring you down any way they can. Married people get divorces and breakup also. Don't give anyone the ability to bring negativity into your world.

My husband and I weren't married when I became pregnant, and my family is extremely religious so it caused some problems. We were always pressured to get married because "It was the right thing do." And then it was brought up that my sons birth certificate would have to different last names on it and he would know that we weren't married. It hurt my feelings all the time. I realized that it really isn't anyone's business. You know when the time is right to get married. Don't feel upset or pressured because someone else has an opinion. Right now you need to just focus on getting yourselves ready for baby, and focus on everything else later. I promise it'll make your wedding day five times as special having your child there. 😊

Yessss I know the feeling me and my bf only been together 3 years but all the older women at my job literally look down on me for being pregnant and not married, one called me damaged goods cause if we break up no one wants a woman with kids lol, all I can do is laugh!

You know where you stand in his life . It would be nice but you guys are basically married ! 12 years!!! F$@! Her because you don't need negative people in your life . Be strong 😘

screw her😒😒