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I'm sure it's my pregnancy hormones but last night I cried for hours and even fell asleep crying.. My SIL wants to throw…

I'm sure it's my pregnancy hormones but last night I cried for hours and even fell asleep crying.. My SIL wants to throw it in my face that me and BF are not married and we are having a child.. My BF and I have been happily together for 12 years.. We have an amazing and strong relationship. We do plan on getting married we just haven't decided when and how.. It's just not something that defines us but we know that it's important and we will do it.. I just don't understand why somebody that claims to love and support us be so judgmental.. It really hurts 😢😢😢

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azmommy85

🎀 Alicia 🎀В ожидании первенца

I know the feeling. I have my family upset with me not being married and having soon to be 2 children before marriage. In all honesty it makes you a bad person. Being married doesn't make you a better person having a baby after marriage either. As long as you and you fiance/boyfriend take responsibility and raise your child that's all that matters and what's important. Its your life not theirs so don't let it get to you. You'll get married when you and your SO are ready.

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trezelle

TrezelleВ ожидании первенца

Girllllll, people will try to bring you down any way they can. Married people get divorces and breakup also. Don't give anyone the ability to bring negativity into your world.

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shelby737

shelby737

My husband and I weren't married when I became pregnant, and my family is extremely religious so it caused some problems. We were always pressured to get married because "It was the right thing do." And then it was brought up that my sons birth certificate would have to different last names on it and he would know that we weren't married. It hurt my feelings all the time. I realized that it really isn't anyone's business. You know when the time is right to get married. Don't feel upset or pressured because someone else has an opinion. Right now you need to just focus on getting yourselves ready for baby, and focus on everything else later. I promise it'll make your wedding day five times as special having your child there. 😊

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missing290user

missing290userВ ожидании первенца

Yessss I know the feeling me and my bf only been together 3 years but all the older women at my job literally look down on me for being pregnant and not married, one called me damaged goods cause if we break up no one wants a woman with kids lol, all I can do is laugh!

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emelywithane

Em💋В ожидании первенца

You know where you stand in his life . It would be nice but you guys are basically married ! 12 years!!! F$@! Her because you don't need negative people in your life . Be strong 😘

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ce5ce

CassandreМама дочки-младенца

screw her😒😒

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