Apparently I'm a bitch because I asked my fiancé to go look at a wedding venue with me tomorrow (which takes 20 minutes and it's literally 2 minutes if that from our house) and he said no he's busy. So I asked him if he was going to play his video game at all tomorrow for 20 minutes, he said yes. I asked him why I can't have that time. He got pissed and said I'm creating drama and I'm a bitch...idk what to do
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Good For You TRUST ME ITS HARD BECAUSE YOU LOVE A PERSON BUT I'M A WITNESS 2 HAVING BAD RELATIONSHIPS & LEAVING & I WAS SINGLE GOING 2 WORK LIVING ON MY OWN GOING 2 SCHOOL HANGING WITH FRIENDS & I ENDED UP BEING HOMELESS RIGHT WHEN I MET MY BOYFRIEND DESPITE HIS IMMATURE BABYMAMA WE HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP HE TOOK IN ME IN WE BEEN BEST FRIENDS SINCE BEEN TOGETHER 2 YEARS WE BOTH LOST JOBS APARTMENTS CARS & HE DIDN'T SEE HIS SON FOR A YEAR BC OF THE MOM BUT MORAL OF THE STORY DON'T GIVE UP ON LOVE OR RELATIONSHIPS GOD WILL PUT A MAN IN YOUR LIFE WHO HE SEES FIT DON'T RUSH JUST ENJOY LIFE & BOOM OUT OF NOWHERE GOD PUTS A MAN THERE
If I were you, I wouldn't rush to marry this man... That's what I would do.
That is NOT someone you should marry- at least not anytime soon. Those are horrible things to say to someone you supposedly love. I'm sorry you have to deal with this... It's hard to find a decent man, but you are young and you have plenty of time to meet the one. Good for you for putting baby first, most girls won't leave a destructive relationship. If he does come begging for you back, don't make it easy for him. Boundaries need to be set and he needs to understand and respect them.
Good for you! Most women don't have the strength to get out of bad relationships and your baby doesn't need to see you being treated like that because she'll think it's ok if a man treats her that way, he does not deserve you at all, so sorry you have to go through this! But on the bright side at least you don't have to face the abuse anymore
@jasmine09212015, I don't think it'll matter if he changes or not at this point. He called me a bitch, ugly, some other stuff, told me to kill myself and that he wanted me out and he would pack my stuff for me when he came back downstairs to talk it out with me. I'm not going to put up with that. I'm not going to tolerate being talked to that way. Emma is going to look up to me and my relationships and I want to set a good example for her. And thank you @bria.k and @jade90kdcicg !
Honestly in the end it will be for the better, either he will realize what an ass he was and change or you'll not have to worry about dealing with another child on top of the one you already have things will work out for the better in the end 😊
I'm proud of you. That must've been rough. You can't stay with a man that treats you like that.
Good for you girl I hope it is now stress free for you and he'll regret treating you that way.
I moved home @jasmine09212015 @bria.k @mamalamadingdong @mommyof10627 @jade90kdcicg
You Should Wait Because If He Isn't Willing 2 Compromise Focus on You & Your Life Find Something You Love & Stop Speaking on It When He Sees You Don't Care Then He'll Possibly Change Let Him Do What He Wants JUST FOCUS ON YOURSELF He'll Regret The Day He Called You A Bitch . DON'T EVEN COMPLAIN OR ASK HIM SHIT JUST STOP CARING
@mamalamadingdong, @jasmine09212015 we just talked about the venue tomorrow and he said "it's my off day, I just want to be off" like um honey, I have Emma 24/7 and pretty much had to quit my job to watch her because you "can't"...do I get off days or breaks? No. I don't. Sometimes things are more important than you having an off day. Then he got so mad he went upstairs to take his 3rd epsomsalt bath to "distress" himself.
Girl you need to get his butt in check, he sounds very rude and disrespectful.
Perhaps he just needs a reality check. Time to reassess what's really important to him.
@jade90kdcicg, @mamalamadingdong @bria.k I'm considering leaving after all this. It took him 3 months to pick s date and he keeps saying I'm forcing the wedding on him when he's the one who asked...and also he is 0 help with Emma. He does literally nothing and said he won't watch her for more than an hour a day so I can do cleaning around the house which I get paid for.
What ^^ @bria.k said and also someone who is like addicted to a video game and can't take 20 mins to do something for you
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
My son just handed me this…. As an adult I made the decision not to get it and told him why I choose not to. Asked him if he knew anything about COVID or the vaccine and he said no all he knows it’s that it’s out there. At the end I asked him if he wants the vaccine I will sign the form if not we ignore it. He said no thank you 😊.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
@ashbabash18,