Apparently I'm a bitch because I asked my fiancé to go look at a wedding venue with me tomorrow (which takes 20 minutes…
Apparently I'm a bitch because I asked my fiancé to go look at a wedding venue with me tomorrow (which takes 20 minutes and it's literally 2 minutes if that from our house) and he said no he's busy. So I asked him if he was going to play his video game at all tomorrow for 20 minutes, he said yes. I asked him why I can't have that time. He got pissed and said I'm creating drama and I'm a bitch...idk what to do
Bria·
В ожидании первенца
Bahahah don't marry a man that'll call you a bitch.
Kristen·
Uh oh... well that's a red flag?
Jade·
What ^^ @bria.k said and also someone who is like addicted to a video game and can't take 20 mins to do something for you
ashley·
Мама дочки-младенца
@jade90kdcicg, @mamalamadingdong @bria.k I'm considering leaving after all this. It took him 3 months to pick s date and he keeps saying I'm forcing the wedding on him when he's the one who asked...and also he is 0 help with Emma. He does literally nothing and said he won't watch her for more than an hour a day so I can do cleaning around the house which I get paid for.
Kristen·
Perhaps he just needs a reality check. Time to reassess what's really important to him.
Jasmine Atencio·
Girl you need to get his butt in check, he sounds very rude and disrespectful.
ashley·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mamalamadingdong, @jasmine09212015 we just talked about the venue tomorrow and he said "it's my off day, I just want to be off" like um honey, I have Emma 24/7 and pretty much had to quit my job to watch her because you "can't"...do I get off days or breaks? No. I don't. Sometimes things are more important than you having an off day. Then he got so mad he went upstairs to take his 3rd epsomsalt bath to "distress" himself.
Brittany Sherman·
You Should Wait Because If He Isn't Willing 2 Compromise Focus on You & Your Life Find Something You Love & Stop Speaking on It When He Sees You Don't Care Then He'll Possibly Change Let Him Do What He Wants JUST FOCUS ON YOURSELF He'll Regret The Day He Called You A Bitch . DON'T EVEN COMPLAIN OR ASK HIM SHIT JUST STOP CARING
ashley·
Мама дочки-младенца
I moved home @jasmine09212015 @bria.k @mamalamadingdong @mommyof10627 @jade90kdcicg
Jade·
Good for you girl I hope it is now stress free for you and he'll regret treating you that way.
Bria·
В ожидании первенца
I'm proud of you. That must've been rough. You can't stay with a man that treats you like that.
Jasmine Atencio·
Honestly in the end it will be for the better, either he will realize what an ass he was and change or you'll not have to worry about dealing with another child on top of the one you already have things will work out for the better in the end 😊
Kristen·
That was very strong of you!
ashley·
Мама дочки-младенца
@jasmine09212015, I don't think it'll matter if he changes or not at this point. He called me a bitch, ugly, some other stuff, told me to kill myself and that he wanted me out and he would pack my stuff for me when he came back downstairs to talk it out with me. I'm not going to put up with that. I'm not going to tolerate being talked to that way. Emma is going to look up to me and my relationships and I want to set a good example for her. And thank you @bria.k and @jade90kdcicg !
ashley·
Мама дочки-младенца
Thank you @mamalamadingdong
Jasmine Atencio·
Good for you! Most women don't have the strength to get out of bad relationships and your baby doesn't need to see you being treated like that because she'll think it's ok if a man treats her that way, he does not deserve you at all, so sorry you have to go through this! But on the bright side at least you don't have to face the abuse anymore
Kristen·
That is NOT someone you should marry- at least not anytime soon. Those are horrible things to say to someone you supposedly love. I'm sorry you have to deal with this... It's hard to find a decent man, but you are young and you have plenty of time to meet the one. Good for you for putting baby first, most girls won't leave a destructive relationship. If he does come begging for you back, don't make it easy for him. Boundaries need to be set and he needs to understand and respect them.
Viki·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (39 нед.)
If I were you, I wouldn't rush to marry this man... That's what I would do.
Brittany Sherman·
Good For You TRUST ME ITS HARD BECAUSE YOU LOVE A PERSON BUT I'M A WITNESS 2 HAVING BAD RELATIONSHIPS & LEAVING & I WAS SINGLE GOING 2 WORK LIVING ON MY OWN GOING 2 SCHOOL HANGING WITH FRIENDS & I ENDED UP BEING HOMELESS RIGHT WHEN I MET MY BOYFRIEND DESPITE HIS IMMATURE BABYMAMA WE HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP HE TOOK IN ME IN WE BEEN BEST FRIENDS SINCE BEEN TOGETHER 2 YEARS WE BOTH LOST JOBS APARTMENTS CARS & HE DIDN'T SEE HIS SON FOR A YEAR BC OF THE MOM BUT MORAL OF THE STORY DON'T GIVE UP ON LOVE OR RELATIONSHIPS GOD WILL PUT A MAN IN YOUR LIFE WHO HE SEES FIT DON'T RUSH JUST ENJOY LIFE & BOOM OUT OF NOWHERE GOD PUTS A MAN THERE
Brittany Sherman·
@ashbabash18,