yeah plus they go to doctors offices with loads of germs I just am ftm and I'm like cautious about everything

I think it's fine, most babies are born in the hospital one of the places with the most germs.

yeah I hear it's fine as long as he or she is covered up and that you don't let strangers touch them and you use hand sanitizer all the time. I mean it's just to her aunts house it's a three hour drive but I really want her to see Caitlin before she gets to a point where she can't even hold her. this woman has done so much for me she's like a mom to me and for her not to see her before she goes to heaven would hurt me so bad

Especially to meet someone who is so far into cancer, I understand the sentiment of them seeing your child atleast once before they go

I took my son out a few days after he was born. it is totally fine. just remember to keep things sanitary around the baby (:

I wouldn't. Baby immune system is still fragile at that point. I would wait the recommended 6 weeks then head over for visits.