ladies I need ur opinions. baby daddy lives in Montana. My bf has been with me since I was about 5-6 weeks pregnant, we live in utah. I figured since my bf will be there thru everything that he should be the one in the delivery room. I told baby daddy that, and he completely flipped and said if he can't be in the delivery room then he won't be there at all. -.-
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My bf aunt wants to be in the delivery room when I give birth but I only want my bf in there . Is that rude ?
Am I the only one who has their bf/baby daddy mom living with them and just can't stand it?
I just remembered that I was in Labor with Miracle and I had my fiance and my aunt in law in the delivery room right? And the whole time I'm giving birth to my baby girl, she talking shit saying my vagina is hairy and shit like hell Yea I was mad cause I'm giving birth and she just talking shit!! So I was thinking just me and baby daddy in the delivery room and my dad or anyone else come too.
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????
Vicki·
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It doesn't matter if he's the father or not. You should be comfortable with whoever is in the room with you and should only want positive emotions in there, not someone who you think will stress you out. Do what's best for you and little one love.
Tiff·
Мама сына-младенца
ya that's his kid and all but ultimately it's your choice, if your stressed then baby's stressed
queenmother·
After the baby is born he can come in and be the first to hold and bond with his child
Laqueesha 😋😘·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
oh Yea a csection only allows one. That's his baby, but if you don't feel comfortable with him being in there then its nothing he can do. you need to be as comfortable as you can when in labor especially going through a csection. so if he gone bring you stress or anything then NO he don't need to be in there. Cause you need to be stress free. So allow your boyfriend if that is who bring you peace and comfort 😘😉
queenmother·
I think it's 100% who you want in the delivery room and who you feel most comfortable with. I'm sorry but when you are in labor it should be 100% about mom and her bringing baby safely into this world. You put the support system that you need in place. Idc whose pride or feelings get hurt.
baby2_2016·
Мама дочки-младенца
@threekings101415,
baby2_2016·
Мама дочки-младенца
they can't both be in there, it's a c section and the hospital here only let's one. :/ and I understand he wants to be in there but I feel more comfortable holding my bf's hand thru it all
Laqueesha 😋😘·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
that's his baby, I can see why he mad. if he want to be in the delivery room then allow him. don't hold him back just because you want your boyfriend in there. that wouldn't be right. now if he don't won't to be in there that's different.. but by him wanting to be in there then allow him to be in there... shit let both of them be in there 😘
Kristina·
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People can be so irritating! Doesn't make any sense. Sorry. You do have a say I think!