It doesn't matter if he's the father or not. You should be comfortable with whoever is in the room with you and should only want positive emotions in there, not someone who you think will stress you out. Do what's best for you and little one love.

ya that's his kid and all but ultimately it's your choice, if your stressed then baby's stressed

After the baby is born he can come in and be the first to hold and bond with his child

oh Yea a csection only allows one. That's his baby, but if you don't feel comfortable with him being in there then its nothing he can do. you need to be as comfortable as you can when in labor especially going through a csection. so if he gone bring you stress or anything then NO he don't need to be in there. Cause you need to be stress free. So allow your boyfriend if that is who bring you peace and comfort 😘😉

I think it's 100% who you want in the delivery room and who you feel most comfortable with. I'm sorry but when you are in labor it should be 100% about mom and her bringing baby safely into this world. You put the support system that you need in place. Idc whose pride or feelings get hurt.

@threekings101415,

they can't both be in there, it's a c section and the hospital here only let's one. :/ and I understand he wants to be in there but I feel more comfortable holding my bf's hand thru it all

that's his baby, I can see why he mad. if he want to be in the delivery room then allow him. don't hold him back just because you want your boyfriend in there. that wouldn't be right. now if he don't won't to be in there that's different.. but by him wanting to be in there then allow him to be in there... shit let both of them be in there 😘

People can be so irritating! Doesn't make any sense. Sorry. You do have a say I think!