If your second half was near you, while you were giving birth, did it affect his sex drive later?…

I think it depends on the man but just in case my husband isnt allowed to look!lol

@laducerfamily, I think I'm going to ask my obgyn to hide everything down there under a cover:)

Yeah, that and just make sure he knows you want him up by your head.

I would never allow my husband to be there and watch the baby coming out of my vagina lol no no

My husband was there for my two older children once I had them he almost jumped me right after thank god the doctor said 6 weeks before you have sex we didn't wait that long but lol

@tomyakova, I don't want him to look down there, but I believe they respect you better when they see how much work it takes to give birth, so they are more understanding and help you with baby more, love you more. That is what one of my good friends told me about how he felt being there for his wife..

@laducerfamily, that's a good point! I think i won't let him go, I will need his hand to hold:)

@reaganmommy2015, haha, that's so nice. I hope my husband is not sensitive too:)

With our first, my husband was worried about looking too, but as soon as she was actually coming out, the excitement of the baby was too cool, and he was psyched to watch her be born. Absolutely no change to his sex drive... waiting six weeks will do wonders.

@annlou, good point! 6 weeks that's a lot.. I didn't even think about it.

I thought the same thing with my first pregnancy but it didn't change his mind about anything lol he was really excited and happy to see his kids being born

@jenii, I really hope my husband will be like this, too. We'll see ..

my husband is so excited to watch it! he's all about it. I don't think it would change anything, maybe just love me some more!

@gambucci17, I also think that this makes them love us more and respect more, but I'm not so sure about their sex drive, especially if they have visual type of personality.