ok you might think that sounds good now lol but it will hurt just ad much especially if you got stitches. I had sex with in 12 days after birth it hurt like a bitch though

@landon1002, Haha, really?! Yes! That would be so fun.

I seen that thats why I was like wow just wow!!! ill be back in green bay from like november tl middle next year while hubby deployed and i have to drive to chicago to see my hubbys grandparents and aunts and all cause they from that area so maybe if ur close or something we could have lunch or something and babies can play haha

@landon1002, Right! I've been telling my boyfriend all about this and he's cracking up that we have so much in common. & that's too crazy, I live 3 hours away from Greenbay in Illinois !

Wow!! I wish we lived closer!!! this is like im looking into a mirror almost its so crazy how much we have in common. im from green bay wi originally but hubby a marine so they moved us to camp pendleton in cali.

@landon1002, We have 3 puppies too ! We've got weiner dogs, haha. Rocky, Frankie, & Oscar Meyer !

That is soooo cute!!! You both look soo happy.

Landon Matthew Hill.

@landon1002, what are you naming your little guy?

@ashleycoronel, Crazy!!!!! well that could explain everything why we are so similar!! haha wow

@landon1002, Haha, no way! That's so crazy! I'll be 21 on the 26th of October!!

@ashleycoronel, I just realized we are soooo close too!!! ur 27+4 im 28+1!!! im due oct 9th. taht could explain a lot why we are like parallel with all this too!!! same age as well. ill be 21 on halloween!! pregnant with baby boy and im a ftm

@ashleycoronel, same here. He done too quick first time which is reasonable but like second time he lasts long so that for sure helps and he never too big on foreplay is only problem. He wants a bj and then sex. so trying to get him into being more adventurous and when i tell him i wanna spice things up he jumps to anal so im kinda like well i gotta give a little to get a little. hopefully he will wanna try some new ways once i give a little. he likes it rough and so he only does him on top and him from behind while laying on side spooning and doggy style... need to find new ways for him to have it rough like he wants but comfortable for me and big belly haha

@landon1002 Haha, I know what you mean ! I'm the exact same way. It's hard for me to climax now though :( I don't know if it's cause of all the extra blood or what.

@jaixi, I thought it was super bad going back and forth. Like that the guy has to wash up after anal to go back to vaginal because of bacteria. I could be wrong but i was wondering if it was true. And ill try olive oil too. that seems more slippery then coconut oil just to start off forst time with. slipperier the better for first time. and @ashleycoronel I wish i could multiple times a day!!! He never home due to military training and may be tmi but im like wanting it all day everyday and when he is home its like we get done and i want it 20 min later. haha its bad.

@jaixi, I haven't tried olive oil yet, but I'll definitely have to give it a shot. & yeah I agree with you, it wouldn't be worth it to rip. 🙈

@landon1002, I can totally relate to not feeling very attractive right now. My man loves the belly though. We have sex multiple times a day now, I feel like he wants it even more so than he did before I was pregnant ! But anal was definitely a nice treat for him, I think your man would love it :) being super spontaneous about it and he'll love it even more.

@landon1002, I'm not talking anal...when I say behind he just enters the other hole...I guess how to phrase it. lol. My bf and I tried anal even before I was preggers we had tons of lube it just isn't for me its way to uncomfortable for me so we do lots of foreplay and different positions. @landon1002

I think olive oil is best lube. I enjoy anal on top and switxhin back and forth from vaginal to anal. but I figure it would hurt to have sex both ways because they are so close together and if you rip then that's probably hell to pay for having anal. I believe you should just wait. but when you do start let him start with oral and his finger o get you used to being messed with anally and then slowly astt with the penis. I suggest lubing penis and anus.LUBE IS KEY!!! push outward as In taking a poop because tensing(squeezing ) will make it more difficult. small thrusts at first then longer stroke. when you get used to it you can start squeezing while he strokes ..its beyond amazing for them.. it may be tmi but just want to be thorough. I never had guidance except hubby . oh you might feel like you have to poop at first. go to the bathroom like when you wake up and wash yourself properly.

@ashleycoronel, Coconut oil? i have some in like a white tub that my mother in law left here and as said to use it on my skin lightly as a moisturizer. Maybe ill give that a try!! He should be home within the next few days from Korea so im trying to suprise him. haha big belly and all not feeling that attractive at all so i figured if i persuaded him and pleased him it may make me feel a little better i guess. sounds bad but it helps me as well haha

@landon1002, We use coconut oil as lube. Lots of foreplay definitely helps. And my boyfriend was so excited to finally be doing it that he had no problem complying with my request to go slow to not hurt me. Just lots of foreplay, lube, relax, take it out if you need to, & let him know to take it easy. Once it's in, it's a piece of cake. It's a very different feeling than vaginal sex, but just as fun :)

@ashleycoronel, @summerrae I havent done it b4 but my hubby always asking me to and its like lots of ppl do it so i want to try just wasnt sure how to go about it cause i dont want him too excited too and go too fast and as far as how to be calm about it when i have a feeling it would just be painful. He had me on hands and knees and i like from behind cause he gets deep but he isnt very small at all so i think thats a big reason as to why im hesitant as well. Does lube help even with size factor? and how is a way to ease into it

@landon1002, at first we had a hard time trying to find something comfy but now sometimes like spooning and him coming in from behind helps, also put a pillow under your tummy and you be on your knees and hands and him coming in from behind is also comfy for me anyways. we tried cowgirl style and that does not work for me it hurt a ton!

Lol my anal was sore for the first few weeks after having all my kids

yeah, had vaginal sex 3 1/2 weeks later

@coraanne, Hahah, I feel you. I was just curious of any other mama's had. I know that sex in general will probably be the last thing on my mind. But I agree with you, my man will get taken care of one way or another 😉

Girl, anal will be the last thing on your mind after pushing that baby out. Most mommas get hemmroids and those are SOOOOOOO painful! I think it'd be best to stay away from intercourse for that first 6 weeks. I plan on pleasuring my husband during those weeks so I know he's satisfied and happy which in turn will make me happy, if that makes sense?

@landon1002,

@ashleycoronel,

lube.

your going to have to relax. massage it. and use lots of lub

@landon1002, Have you tried it before ? Honestly, I was soooo against it. But my boyfriend has been wanting to forever and it's a lot better than you would think. As long as he goes slow and listens if you're in discomfort it's actually pretty enjoyable !

@expecting2015, Lol, felt a little naughty asking. 😂

Anal ? Girl that's kinky lol

Random and personal question but how did u make it comfortable while pregnant?? Hubby wants it and it just not appealing to me and i want both of us happy.

Im not into anal but id think its best to just not have any intercourse to really stay away from the possibility of getting infections. Its pretty close to the vagina so i think it'd be excruciatingly painful. Im sure after you deliver you'll not want to lol. 😁