Jennifer Nguyen
ngujen
Jennifer Nguyen·В ожидании первенца

Question about child support in Texas: So my boyfriend's dad is still paying child support to his mom because he owes her. She recently kicked my boyfriend out and he is currently living with me. She sends half of his sister's child support to her but won't send any to him. She's always tells him she has no money but gets her hair done and buy her boyfriend gifts and takes his sisters out. She's gotten his sister two cars already but won't get him one or send his child support so he can save up for one himself. If his dad were to go to court/talk to someone about getting the child support sent directly to him since his mom no longer supports him, what are the chances of that actually happening? His dad is all in to try to make it possible. It doesn't make sense for her to still get it when she no longer supports him.

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krys
Krystal·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Im not saying what she is doing is right , but legally back support is owed to the parent not the child so regardless if he is living there or not the money belongs to the mother not him there is nothing that can be done , it's money owed for taking care of him while he was under her roof , child support is meant to support the child in any way not just buying him things it's meant to pay the bills buy food get the kid what's needed how ever the parent chooses to spend the money is up to that parent so technically if the money is back pay and he no longer lives in the household that means the money belongs to her for keeping him alive fed and well when he was there it may suck but it's the way the laws are

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aliya0915
Ayana·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Oh, definitely need to speak to someone

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ngujen
Jennifer Nguyen·В ожидании первенца

@aliya0915, he's 18 now. She spends the money on herself, her boyfriend, and his two sisters. It would be a hassle for her to buy him new clothes but his sister literally had a huge closet fulllllll of clothes and she would still take her shopping.

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aliya0915
Ayana·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

If you don't mind me asking how old is he? He should definitely speak with an attorney

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ngujen
Jennifer Nguyen·В ожидании первенца

@aliya0915, but she didn't even use it on him.. she never has. ugh.

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boymomx4
Boymomx4+1girl·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

then it shouldn't be hard, that's how it works with my sons dad and the state will have proof then.

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aliya0915
Ayana·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

It's back child support? If it's back support then she will still get it because it's owed to her. My husband dad still pays and he will be 40. He paying her back for the years on non support when the son was a minor

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tracynangel
Tracy Pimentel 💋·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)

Oh wow yeah I would look it up on google I'm sure there's something that says what to do

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ngujen
Jennifer Nguyen·В ожидании первенца

@kaylareese26, they take it out of his check every month.

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boymomx4
Boymomx4+1girl·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Man I can't type. Lol sorry

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ngujen
Jennifer Nguyen·В ожидании первенца

@tracynangel, I have no idea, that's what I'm trying to figure out. But his dad knows of the situation and wants to do whatever he can to help him because I feel like it shouldn't go to her if she is no longer supporting him, it should go directly to him so he can support himself. She also promised to get him a car, but didn't pull through. Offered to give him her car, didn't pull through again. So now, we have no idea how he's going to make it when I deliver. 😢

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boymomx4
Boymomx4+1girl·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

He needs to take her to court of his dad is sending it to her he needs proof that his dad is sending it to his mom. And up don't see why not he should be able to. But every state is different @ngujen

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ngujen
Jennifer Nguyen·В ожидании первенца

@kaylareese26, so he could try to get it sent directly to him right? Because his mom is saying she won't send it to him but sends his sister hers. She doesn't even buy him anything, never has without a fit. But does anything and everything for his sister's.

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tracynangel
Tracy Pimentel 💋·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)

Ohhhh ok well then yeah you would have to take her to court right?

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ngujen
Jennifer Nguyen·В ожидании первенца

@tracynangel, yeah because he owes it

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boymomx4
Boymomx4+1girl·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Yes if it's back support even over 18 he has to pay it off. But that's bs that won't give him his money

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tracynangel
Tracy Pimentel 💋·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)

If he's over 18 his dad still pays child support?

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