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‼RANT BUT NEED OUTSIDE OPINION‼️So I need advice ladies.. I don't want to get into the backdrop of what kind of man my older sister is with but he is evil, scam artist, abuser, and user. Anyways so they went out of town for the weekend and my husband, I and my son stayed at their house while they were out. I took care of it like I always do CUZ she expects me to clean and wash her dishes CUZ it's so hard for her to do herself CUZ she works full time and he doesn't Help at all. And mind U I have a 11 month old and I'm pregnant, barely have energy to clean my own house and she wants to get mad at me if I come over and leave and her house looks the same as I got there. She's hypocritical at times but she got like that after drinking a lot and being with him. Well they got back a week ago but just texted me last night and told me that my son broke their laptop screen and they r sure I seen it and expect to be paid back. I didn't even know it was broken CUZ we didn't touch the laptop all weekend(don't even know the password on it) so I texted her that I didn't know he broke it and asked her how much she wanted for it. But apart of me feels like She shouldn't have texted me to pay for it CUZ how do I even know it was my son who broke it, and second, neither of them bought it. Her bfs mistress bought it for him while he was cheating on her!!! And she took him back (better fact: this fool got his mistress to buy him a paid in full newest BMW by telling her my sister abused him made him sleep outside and hurt her son and all kinds of crazy shit) and one time when my sister kicked him out when she firs. Learned of his affair... The mistress paid 8 month in advance apartment for him and his son!! Lmfao but anyway they want me to pay them back, and I don't feel like I should Becuase I have NEVER asked for her to pay me back for all the shit her kids have broken of mine and believe me It would add up. So I'm gonna pay her just because she's my sister and he is my son, but when I asked how much she said " I'll let u know when he takes it to the repair shop" SO ITS NOT EVEN HER THAT WANTS ME TO PAY ITS HIM! And he didn't even pay for it himself! Everything he has, has been payed for by either my sister or mistress (he's a scam artist and is scamming my sister as well but she's delusional and plans to marry him THIS SATURDAY ( wich I will no longer be attending thank God, I don't feel obligated anymore. I disaprove and tell her she crazy for marrying him and I know there is a reason he is marrying her BECUASE he doesn't love her, gives two shits about her and just cheated on her 2 months ago. Which she found out.. And is still marrying him?!?) But back to my problem, I feel like he's gonna scam me and take it to the most expensive repair shop just BECUASE that's what kind of person he is. And my sister is standing behind him 100% when he has never stood behind her and treats her and her kids like shit. (She has two kids and he has one) the kids each have like two iPads each but his has way more shit. Paid for by the mistress...is a theif.. Curses at her kids.. And still gets bought everything by her, while her kids barely get shit!!!) am I in the wrong for being so upset about it!?? After lots of marinating I realized it's not that I have to pay her back that im upset about. It's that 1. Neither of them bought it(his mistress did. 2. I've never asked her to pay me for what her kids have broken and they r like 10 years old now and I'm really active with them CUZ I love them to death so U can imagine how much shit that could be 3. Im pissed he made her text me instead of himself when it's him that wNts the money. And 4. He wants me to pay him when my husband is the only one that works, im a stay at home mom and a baby on the way(going through our own tribulations) and I can't even afford to go shopping for our own damn selves. (Everything he makes goes to my son CUZ he's the only one we worry about (CUZ we can wait... But it's been long and hard of not having shit) but rent and bills just also take up all the cash each month it seems like we can never save up CUZ we like to afford little things and family things like birthday dinner, and my sons bday is coming up.. And then family camping that we have to go too but also pay for obviously) and it's just to much stess can't even get a vaca damnit))and this fool doesn't work. Lives off my sister. And has had everything bought for him by scamming people ever since he got out of jail. So I just need to know if I'm in the wrong for being so upset CUZ I literally don't want anything to do with them AGIAN after I pay them back or if I'm over reacting. Advice??? ⁉️
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missing88user

lol awwe thanks love! so are you

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missing88user

lol awwe thanks love! so are you

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karina22

@momofroyalty, UR awesome lol!

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karina22

Lol I know @summer2015 😣 it's like a soap opera and pathetic I know

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missing88user

no don't go off God will make your enemies your foot stool

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karina22

Lol @momofroyalty UR right good point. I have to see them at dinner tonight too though for my other sisters bday. Wich I was so excited to go too but now just feel like it's a waste of money I have to save to pay THEM back.. But my other sister will be so upset wit h me if I don't go which she made very clear.. (Before all this happened CUZ she don't even know about it yet) but she Even offered to pay for me BECUASE my hubby works with hers and she knows the situation but I just feel pathetic at this point and don't want to even look at my other sis or him. :( and act like everything is ok I just want to go off on him and tell him he didn't even pay for the fucking laptop but I just feel so petty for havin g a problem with paying for something my son broke.

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teamjayce2015

wow that was long!!!

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missing88user

no I would feel the same way. some times u have to love ppl from a distance.

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karina22

Right?! Thank u for saying I'm the bigger person. It makes me feel better!! Lol @momofroyalty it really does. I really don't wanna pay this month is so hard and my husband sure as fuck don't wanna pay with his long hard worked hours so now I have to come up with the money CUZ he's like fuck them and I agree but she's my sister... The only reason ima pay it and cut connection is BECUASE she's always been there for me. But do U think it's wrong of me to be so upset over it to not talk to them AGIAN or invite them to my sons bday that's coming up?! I feel like she picked the loser over everyone n Im done dealing with him for her

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missing88user

it sounds like you're the bigger person in this. I would ask how they know it was my kid and did they see him do it. if so than I would take it to the repair shop myself

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