My Facebook Vent at 6 am haha WHY do people not take marriage seriously!? Like foreal, marriage is…

My Facebook Vent at 6 am haha

WHY do people not take marriage seriously!? Like foreal, marriage is made for two people who love each other and want to be together forever. It's a promise that you make NOT ONLY TO YOURSELVES, but to God. It's a prayer, a promise, a commitment. The traditional wedding vows go as follows," I, ____, take you, ____, to be my lawfully wedded(husband/wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part." That means no matter what you go through in life, you stand by each other's side. Through EVERYTHING, you work it out. You don't just get a divorce for the hell of it. You don't get married because you "want" to. If you really truly LOVE someone and they really truly love you, there shouldn't be one single problem with being togwther forever. People fight. It's going to happen. You live under the same roof with that person 24/7. You breathe in that air ALL THE TIME. Hear all the same things ALL DAY. But if you can't live together BEFORE you get married, then don't get married. 6 months living together before marriage and it doesn't work out, what makes you think 66 yrs of living together will? It's not going to change. Well, it may, but that could go either way and change for better or for worse. I know I got married at 16 and everyone thought I was so stupid. That I was too young. I hear it all the time. Even now," Ohhh, you're 18, married, and pregnant? Why so young?" Because I knew what I wanted. I fought for what I wanted. I still fight for it every day. We've both made mistakes that some people would consider beyond repair, but we love each other. We threaten to go our separate ways (and some pray like hell we will), but truth is: I'd be lost without this pain in the ass. I don't mind living the rest of my life with him. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. Our family-to-be is my life. So, when the going gets rough, you can't just forget everything? You married them for a reason! Maybe I'm the only one that looks at it this way, but God didn't mean for marriage to be a game of house. Make sure it's what you want to do, then stick with your choice! Fight for what you love. It was worth it when the two signed their lives to each other, so cherish it... Just my outlook...