OK ladies, I need advice and a little support with something... My husband has been considering alot here lately about changing jobs... He wants to get a job thats an hour away that could keep him home for weeks at a time... Well, if he can't get it, he wants to join the military... In the past, I had a boyfriend who joined National and he left for basic, never wrote, and came back and broke my heart... I've been married to this man since 7/12/13 and we just had our beautiful baby girl on 10/21...