breenda21
breenda21
breenda21

So I'm supposed to start my period today and I took a test with fmu and it came back negative :( really bummed.. I just hate how I have to struggle to get pregnant. Everyone seems to get pregnant so quick I just don't understand :((

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anim
anim·В ожидании первенца

Yeah it can for most people but it depends on your HCG levels. I'm assuming mine was low for some reason. And good luck!!! :) @breenda21

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breenda21

@anim, that's crazy because supposibly clearblue is a great brand you know. I thought it could detect a pregnancy like 5 days before missed period . But now I'm just going to wait & see . Hoping my period doesn't stop by .

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anim
anim·В ожидании первенца

@breenda21, yes I was. It finally became positive about 4 or 5 days after my missed period. I used clear blue the whole time. when it was finally positive it said I was 1-2 weeks. It just seems different for everyone.

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aphrodite2014
Danielle·Мама троих детей

@breenda21, who told you weight dosnt matter?.. because it does matter even of people have concieve healthy kids while over weight dosnt mean that they didn't put themselves and their child at risk. weight is something I've always struggled with and I'm not by any means a small girl but I know my weight and the fluctuations aren't good for my health let alone a child I'm caring's health. I'm not saying heavier people are bad or anything I'm just saying it causes alot of health problems later on down the road I'm in the medical field and have to see it on a day to day basis. being heavier runs in my family but that dosnt mean I can't eat healthier and teach my children to so that way they can learn a better healthier life style then I did to live longer.... okay. off my stool..

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breenda21

Got*

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breenda21

@anim, so you were pregnant but for negatives ?

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breenda21

@aphrodite2014, well I heard that weight doesn't matter but I think that's going to be what I am going to do.

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breenda21

@tiffanymanuel, I think this upcoming cycle I am going to just have sex all month

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breenda21

@tiffanymanuel, I usually get it on in the 14th day of my cycle. I use some apps that tell me

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tiffanyluis
Tiffany·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)

oh and weight don't matter with that I've always been big at a preprrgnancy weight of 293

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tiffanyluis
Tiffany·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)

one thing worked for me was on the tenth day after the last day of my period my fiance and I got it on and I got prego like that... told my friend who wa was trying and it worked for her too.. maybe try that

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aphrodite2014
Danielle·Мама троих детей

I personally would suggest trying to get your weight down. your hormones can be thrown off the bigger you are.. I know mine did at 220 and at 200 I finally get regulated again. even though 200 isnt healthy for me because I'm 5'6" it's better then 220. any weight you can drop before conceiving will help better you and your baby.. plus being at a healthier weight and being all around healthier will help you live longer for your child. I currently take Plexus products to help with my weight loss goal.. I'm still TTC but I'm getting healthier for the betterment of my child and myself

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anim
anim·В ожидании первенца

I used clear blue also and got several negatives even after my missed period.. Good luck though!!! I wish the best for you!!

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breenda21

@babycasey, oh okay I see. Well hope my period don't come. I am overweight at 240 pounds so idk if that's why I'm struggling to conceive.

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breenda21

@temeshawalker, yes. That's what I am going to do.

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babycasey

@breenda21, oh very much so. This time I tested 2 weeks after my missed period and tested negative, and cried my eyes out.... it was to soon so I waited and here I am, 8 weeks along 😊 so the hormone just want strong enough at 2 weeks....

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

Yes!! getting pregnant is something you can make happen.... its natural and if you stop worry wait for a late period and make sure to relax

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breenda21

@babycasey, so there's still a possibility ?

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breenda21

@temeshawalker, right now I have Ovia & Kindara. That's how I'm going by when I have sex. Well thanks for giving me hope I'm here crying my eyes out. But I am just going to wait then and see what happens

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momof1and1ontheway
momof1and1ontheway·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (17 нед.)

it took me a while with my second. eventually i stopped trying and said to my husband that i just wanted to enjoy each other not just be caught up in making a baby. 2 weeks later i was pregnant.

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

YES!!!! you have to wait for your period to have been missed they say test a week after a missed period..some test can detect early on but it can be wrong cause some bodies can produce the levels earlier but a missed period is your body telling u that you could possibly be pregnant

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babycasey

oh yes, you're technically not even late yet.... so just hold off, I know patience is hard to have when you just want that yes, but it the hormone take while before it'll show. only other way is a blood test. that'll tell you now.

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

you should also download period tracker and track when your fertile and ovulating... i lived by my app the moment i stopped i got pregnant

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breenda21

@temeshawalker, so I'm supposed to start my period today or tomorrow, it can be too early still? I thought you can test a few days early ?

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего

its way to earlier to test you have to give your body time to create the necessary hcg levels if you have missed you period by just day you have to realize the levels will not be high enough i took a test with my first daughter it said negative yet in still my oldest is here

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breenda21

@babycasey, yeah for some it's just hard to conceive. My eyes are so heavy right now if so much crying :/

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jessicagarmal
Jessica·В ожидании первенца

took us 8 months of trying... even with ovulation sticks.... keep doing what your doing :)..

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babycasey

honey, I have 3 unplanned kids already and figured I'd have an easy time being pregnant... but it actually took a year and a half!! I thought something was wrong, so just be patient. I know the feeling, I cried every negative test i had...

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missing217user
missing217user·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)

Oh yeah... I'm sorry... praying that you get you conceive soon

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breenda21

@cjw1095, thanks but I don't think so. I used a clearblue one . I don't think it would come out negative if I were to be pregnant .

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missing217user
missing217user·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)

maybe it was to early to test try again tomorrow. .. but I'm sorry

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mrsalston
Sharelle·В ожидании первенца

Maybe try taking a break this coming cycle and start back the cycle after @breenda21 good luck!!!

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breenda21

@mrsalston, yeah I know I just hate this. It's my third month TTC. Yesterday one of my friends announced that she's expecting. I just don't know what to do anymore :( I'm literally so crushed right now :(( I really though this was my month. I don't wanna sound like a cry baby but u know it just sucks

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mrsalston
Sharelle·В ожидании первенца

Keep your head up, as not always easy for others as most ppl might think it is🙏🏾🙏🏾

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