@phasion, I kno I hurts so bad I'm doing better now and thank you

@proud15, omg that's sad man how could his family be so evil that was your best friend the one you loved . Man please just take it easy . And good for her life without parole she wasn't right in the head at all how could you a person take someone life over jealousy .

@phasion, yea at first i would cry my self to sleep not I just lay next to the bear he got me for my birthday. it gets worse I wasn't allowed at the funeral I am not allowed and obituary

she got a life sentence (36 years) with no possibility of parol @elenaj

@proud15, 😖😖 that is sooo crazy man

Omg that's so sad . Omg . Wow . He suffered . How much time did she get ? @proud15

@phasion, she was crazy enough to kill him and hide his body at her grandmother's house out of town where she was from which was not that far from where he had moved to to get away from her and then try and run me over.

@proud15, omg the parents blame you? Smh that is so hurtful . But how crazy was the ex before ?

@elenaj, she suffocated him and then turn around and stabbed him 15 times

@phasion, she made her bed hard now she gotta lie in it .

@proud15, that's messed up on his family part . It's not your fault that his ex was crazy . God wanted that baby here for a reason . His ex made her own choice to kill him . How did he die if I may ask ?

@elenaj, and I so agree. and its worse on my end cause not only do i blame my self but his whole family blames me and tells me all the time we should have never did what we did and we should have stayed friends. then they want nothing to do with my son which is okay why cause I made the choice to sleep with my best friend knowing his ex was crazy and his family didn't like me. I can say its not just deadbeat parents its also deadbeat family members. but I will protect my son with every little inch of me from them people cause I know what they can do.

@elenaj, that's so true like my best friend she knew that dude was no good in the beginning . And now she's just dealing with everything that comes with it . To be honest I don't feel bad I just feel bad for my god son . She use to tell me what her baby father said and did and I would get so turned off and be like and you allow that ? That's just crazy and she thought it was funny smh I guess she see now

I feel like at the end of the day , us as women need to be more careful with who we lay down with and have a baby by . A lot of times if we use discernment & wisdom we can tell if that man is any good or will be a good father . I'm not gone blame just the men for being deadbeats . As women we need to take responsibility and stop letting these bum ass men get us pregnant . But that's my opinion tho . I try not to complain about my baby's father cause at the end of the day I picked him .

@phasion, my god daughter father is in and out of her life so I know how it feels I use to see her cry every other day cause of her father but my cousin her mother let her make biggest decision of her life on rather she wanted to deal with her father and she told her no and she is only 5. she has seen her father fight on her mother she has hears him call her every name in the book except the blood name of the lord. its up to us mothers to protect our children so they won't continue to go through that. cause it's never the mothers fault so that's why they have a choice they can stay and deal with it or they can walk away and yes I am worried about my emotions because it is my fault he is not gonna be around but I'm also as well thinking my child emotions for the day he ask me where is his father and I have to tell him. but everybody is entitled to their own opinion I feel the way I feel and you and others feel the way you do.

@proud15, I think it's putting more of an emotional strain on the child if the father is in and out of a child's life versus him deceased don't you think? You are speaking more of your emotions instead of your child. Trust me my best friend goes through it and her son is only 6 and he already resents his father and is extremely hurt .

@jenii, that's so true

@phasion, it wasnt put out to coming at them wrong but I honestly rather have a deadbeat babydaddy then one that is dead because of me I have to tell my son when he gets older that his father was killed because he wanted to be with me. it would be a lot Easier to tell him that his father did love him then to say he is dead. I feel like they are lucky cause they have a choice they can leave or stop dealing with their babies father I don't have a choice mines was made for me.

I'm so sorry and I agree I tell myself to be glad my children's father isn't gone. And it's on him if he wants to be involved with his kids.

Sorry for your lost but I think you're coming at those mommies the wrong way . You say talk to the baby's father ? But how can you say that when some of these women stories states that their baby fathers doesn't listen and then to go further on saying be grateful even though their baby father don't do anything at least they have a father? I'm not sure if those mothers would take that lightly that's actually hurtful to say because having their father alive and absolutely doing nothing for their own child their own blood is more hurtful . At least if their father was deceased they have a reason but what is the reason for them? Oh little Timmy your father don't love you or have nothing to do with you?

@alainalovesmommy, I understand and some men have to wait until the child is in the world to realise that its real and some get scared and run away but I was just trying like at least other peoples kids got a chance to hear they fathers voice my never did and never will.

I'm sorry for your baby and you and I hope the best for you guys , but some men don't even listen if you try to talk to them they are still into themselves to pay attention to whats important