the guy I was dating for the past 2 years now that there's a possibility I might be pregnant wants…

Fuck him you can do it yourself. My baby daddy left me when I got pregnant, wanted me to get an abortion but wouldn't even help pay for it. Fuck em.

well in sure that there will probably be quite a few moms on here that have been through this but all I can say it do what is best for you. I personally could never get an abortion. Don't get one just because he will leave you. this is a time that beshoukd stay by your side. babies are blessings and its such an amqzibg great experience and if you doubt want the baby then there is always adoption. but we are here for you girly we are full of support and love. good luck

@brightsunsett, I know I can I just NEVER thought he would be like that. he's like if you keep the baby I will have nothing to do with you only the child.

I feel your pain mama. My ex unfortunately insisted on my having an abortion after I told him I was pregnant. We were together for a year. He kept insisting that I get an abortion because I wasn't ready to have a baby. That's what he thought. I look back on that, with pride and joy in my heart as my son moves energetically in my womb. Had I listened to my ex back in September I would have never gotten the chance to feel my sons movements nor would I be given the chance to be a mama. Sometimes you have to evaluate your situation, recognize the selfishness of the other person involved and question whether or not it's worth the heartache keeping them around. Eventually for me I had to tell my ex that we were done (I discovered he was cheating on me the entire time while we were exclusively dating and wanted the abortion to cover it up), not for my own sake but for the wellbeing of my son. Your baby deserves better than a wayward father. :) I'm praying for your situation and congratulations if you are in fact pregnant. It's a blessing not a curse!!

Keep the baby if that's what you want to do. Pregnancy is hard either way, single or not. But you know what you wanna do no matter what he says or does, and you will do what you wanna do either way lol. It sucks but if he acts like that then he doesn't deserve to be in your life. Or your babies.

I agree with @jaspersmama61315 in a situation like this, it kinda sounds like you would like to keep your baby if you were to become pregnant. The answer is quite simple. leave the guy. keep your baby. it's sad that there's guys out there that want nothing to do with their offspring. that just means that they prefer doing something else. but what you get is something 100x better. you get unconditional love from your baby. being pregnant is a bit of a challenge, but in the end. it's all worth it when you have your little bundle of joy in your arms. In all honesty though, I would rather have a crying adorable baby sleeping next to me, than a self centered guy.

@rickinoel88,

Amen. @aregi92310 😊👏🏽👏🏽

thank you ladies. Yes!!! if I'm pregnant I would want to keep my baby no if and or buts about it.

honestly I wouldn't be here if my mom had gotten an abortion like my father wanted her too. my dad was there at first though because he wanted me to hold his name.. first name not last.. and he was there till I was lile 1 or 2 then he joined the army I didn't know him really till 2006 but we are best of buddies now.. always keep an open mind with the daddy now I don't know what I would do without him even though my mom did a good job raising me... my dad said he was just scared and that as soon as he saw me after I was born he knew I was his and th at he would do anything for me.