first pregnancy i was induced. this pregnancy daddy wants me to have no drugs and i want a water birth. But no drugs????…

well thats not a one on one between you and him thats a comparison between u and his pass and thats the wrong way to come about that. you are a different person. so i understand your dilemma.... @steph11

I'm not I'm making it my choice because he's saying this because his ex wife didn't have drugs well good for her and now she is no way a mom to those kids. so if I want drugs I'll get them. the closer I get the more I do want to try with out tho but I haven't told him that lol. I'd love to try a water birth. the tub has been my sanctuary but my hospital doesn't have one

yeah so u understand. but im really making this a joint decision because want us to go through it together even though im having the baby its both our child. alot of woman have problems these days stating its my child sweety noone makes babies on their own and unless dad wasnt there from the start then dad should be apart of everything. @steph11

my boyfriend also doesn't want me to have drugs. I want drugs so I'll be getting drugs don't get me wrong well see how it goes but I'm all for drugs

yeah super excited the second time i know what too expect so its fine with me

they don't give drugs in water births ...so guess it works out.

Screw that nonsense, he's not the one giving birth. In my opinion, he may offer his opinion- but he doesn't get to say anything about your choices.

hey i hear that kimberly lol @kimberlyyyy

Yeah F that! Lol. If you do it, more power to Ya but I wouldn't be able to handle that.

yes it does i mean the shower did for my first pregnancy it must be heaven to be in the tub

I've heard the water soothes the pain some.

yeah but i respect daddies choices too natural way really isnt a bad idea anyway

all your choice, hun