I don't know if I'm the only one but I have this thing about being touched and now that I'm pregnant of course everyone wants to touch my belly. Most people ask and I politely refuse. Other people like my ex boyfriends mom, think that just because I'm pregnant my personal space no longer needs to be respected, even after asking her to stop, she responded with, "get used to it" I said no and left her house and haven't been back since. So as a result I am not inviting her to my baby shower. I know it seems mean but I hate always having to explain every little thing to her, she can never just take no for an answer.