I'm fcking pissed. I've tried to feed Gabe 2xs today and he wouldn't latch. I just tried again and he latched for 5 mins and was acting like he wasn't getting anything so he was just crying and crying I had to give him a fcking bottle. I'm so mad I could fcking cry. I hate giving him formula. I told him this was the last bottle he'd get until I say otherwise
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Those who use nipple shields...how do you like them? i can't get Gunner to latch on and he always gets so frustrated & starts to cry and cry... :( it makes me sad i cant get him to latch...so iv been pumping and putting it in bottles..
Rant... (Disclaimer: I absolutely love my husband, hes a great man and an amazing father ! ) I'm probably being very emotional about the topic because it's very touchy to me. With my first child I wasnt able to get him to latch for the first 8 months, it was heart breaking, I was young and tried everything i could so i pumped milk every 2 hours for 8 months straight untill he could latch.. and I had a crazy oversupply! With my second child he latched immediately and fed constantly, around 6 months we realized he was dropping quite a bit of weight and becoming underweight. We tried everything. And around him being 9 months I decided I would just pump and bottle feed him but I would only get an oz every 4 hours or so and he ofcourse wouldnt take the bottle. So I realized I'd been failing to produce for my son and it was heartbreaking. I started him on formula immediately. Now that this baby is almost here I dont want to breast feed at all. I've had so many problems with it and I just dont want to. But my husband is saying i need to, that I'm not giving him a fair chance. So I said fine then I'll pump so I know how much hes getting and I'll know if theres an issue... and hes ligit mad at me and saying I'm being unfair to my child, that I'm not treating my kids equally.. I just dont want to fail this baby too. I dont know why my body isnt doing what it's supposed to I'm just so frustrated and overwhelmed
aaliyahsmommy041515·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I was somewhat on that same boat but now I pump n give my daughter the breast milk in a bottle
Lili Nessa·
В ожидании первенца
Ohh no, I bet that's strange to u...if he hasn't acted like this before. Poor mama do u know when there is milk?
LaJuan✌🏾️✊🏾🌻·
Мама сына-младенца
@dovejazz I'm never empty lol. But my baby is exclusively breastfed he rarely gets bottles... he's probably had 4 his whole life.. I was so hurt
Kaitlin·
Мама сына-младенца
They get lazy if you bottle feed... You can try talking to a lactation consultant?
LaJuan✌🏾️✊🏾🌻·
Мама сына-младенца
@kaity0117 That was his first bottle in about a month
Kaitlin·
Мама сына-младенца
And he was fussy while nursing?
LaJuan✌🏾️✊🏾🌻·
Мама сына-младенца
@kaity0117 Yes