I'm sorry but being pregnant has made me feel real insecure about my body. I've always been thin and my legs and toned…

@14emathews, I am right there with you, I'm 5'2 and pre weight was 106ish. I ate whatever, whenever and never went over 110. I am currently pushing 150 (I was 155 and lost) and it's just been hard to over come! you gain so quick it's just different. Alauras so healthy so I'm glad for that but I will be glad when she's here and I can shed some of this weight and feel like myself again. my fiance is loving my butt and boobs as well lol!!

@sking092192 I'm very happy that my son is in there growing and all healthy but on the cruise I went on there were these pretty girls in tank tops and bikinis and I'm over here in the corner reminiscing when I looked that good. July needs to come so I can push my son out and get back to work on retoning everything so I can feel better about myself

I was like that this past pregnancy. Still kinda do feel that way, and I'm almost 4 weeks pp. I've almost already got my old stomach back too. Just so insecure, and I hate it 😣😔

@14emathews, Yeah I was in walmart yesterday and they had all the pretty bikinis out with the shorts and tank tops.. I just kept waddling.. lol thats not happening

@laura_love I look at my man and he's attractive...he works out...he plays basketball. then there's me...sitting like a bump on a log can't even go up 30stairs without feeling like my legs are going to give out.

i was 95lbs but im 126 now & 5'1, was a A cup now im-pushin a C, was a size 0 n xs(panties) now im a 3 n almost a medium. my hips hav spreaded n my butt lifted lol, i always beeb secure being small(its natural n i burn fat quick) tryin to figure out how to kp the weight though bcuz it does look nice on me@14emathews

@mrsgorgeous890915 the boobs and the butt can stay as long as they like haha. my dad says he likes my fuller face and all I see is chunky. I wish I wasn't so picky about how I look but I can't help but pick apart and then when food comes I eat until I'm a hippo. maybe if my man reassured me once in a while things will be a little better but for now they suck

I know the feeling. I felt so extremely out of shape and ended up gaining 45lbs 😞 I started out at 125. Now, postpartum, I have a little muffin top and I hate it so much.

Funny because I felt so sexy pregnant I loved my curves now I feel flat and empty.

@laura_love I was doing a little sexting to my man right now and he flat out tells me he doesn't want to have sex as he's afraid he will hurt me. and I'm over here now in tears as my insecurities are pushing through even harder. I think this is one of the hardest parts of being pregnant

lol i like my weight on me but ppl are use to me being small due to me being petite my whole life, its easy to lose the stomach (breastfeeding contracts the muscle in the stomach n tightens n u drop weight fast) @14emathews

@alivewithyou you are so so lucky!! I wish I could feel the same

this my weight after my 5year old (1yr ago pics) before pregnancy, i hav more definition n tone in my legs, calves etc now

@mrsgorgeous890915 I hope I can breastfeed. my mom couldn't with my sister or I. that worries me a little

it was easy to me, im kinda on the fence about it this pregnancy @14emathews

I agree. I had problems with that too. My fiancé loves sex(of course, what guy doesn't?) it hurt so bad, though, and sometimes I'd have to stop. It turned me into a total mess.

@mrsgorgeous890915 I just hope all things work out smoothly. :) @laura_love exactly! one time we were going at it and then all of a sudden I screamed from this sharp sharp pain in my side. we had to stop. it hasn't happened since but he's timid a little now and I'm over here like "LOVE ME"

Mine was the opposite. He still wanted to do it even knowing it hurt me. I mean, he'd stop when I needed him to, but I still felt as if he didn't care

@laura_love awwwwhs :( well when you're in pain you gotta knock it and try later. but now it feels like I gotta take a class on lap dances and buy some black and red lingerie and cook something lmao.

That's exactly how I felt, haha. Although, it's hard to get away with wearing lingerie when we live with my parents 😳

@laura_love oh yeah that can be problematic! :/ my man and I currently live 40minutes apart from each other. he doesn't drive yet so I'm usually over there. his mom is disabled and always in bed so whenever we want to get freaky we have to use the couch and be real quiet -.- but as soon as he graduates he's moving into the condo with me and its on lmao

Haha, sounds like a plan. My fiancé and I have to becareful because I can be loud(tmi sorry), and for some reason, our bed frame has wheels on it

@laura_love lmao that was me this past fall when I was in college. my bed was lofted and for some odd reason the damn thing squeaked. never figured it out either. but it squeaked like crazy

Maybe it was just old. Idk

@laura_love well the dorm I was in was just built before this fall. but once I unlofted it there was no more squeaking :D

Hmm, idk then. We left the headboard of of our old bed when we moved in with my parents to avoid noise, haha

@laura_love that's a smart idea! I just can't wait until we move into our condo that way whatever noise is made won't get yelled at lmao

I've been trying to turn in an app for an apartment so we can get out, but I'm not able to turn the app in until the 19th 😑

@laura_love that should be here before you know it! :)

I sure hope so. I'm so ready to get out of my parents' place