How do I tell people I dont want them in my delivery room?
- I only want my mom & boyfriend in there. But so many people want to be in there & for good reason but I can't think of a way to tell them no without hurting their feelings. My dad wants to be in there, my grandma & my mother in law, but this is not something where I feel they need to be in there for.
i have the same issue but ehh i dont have a problem being "rude" cuz its my baby and my day and only my mom and boyfriend are gonna be in the delivery room lol wont even call anyone else til an hour or so after the babys born so i will have time to chill for a minute after n cuddle w baby and bond w her n my man. everyone else can see her a couple hours after i have her lol
@_february2015_, hospitals have them. if they do. its ur day dear. you and ur baby and ur man's day. they can wait.
lol I was lowkey planning on doing that but I wasn't sure if my family would make a big scene as they usually do... they're pretty hard headed & would probably need security to escort them out if anything. @elliot.s
tell the nurse. she can take the blame or say there a limit to how many in a room during labor :) my excuse
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Is it wrong i delete peoples phone numbers in my fiances phone because i dont want him talking to them???
Been thinking a lot how do I tell my family I dont want them at the birth of my daughter they all assume they will be there and havent had the energy to argue with them about it but I really just want me and my babys father. wish my family would understand that.
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
my hospital only allowed 2 people In the room for the delivery :p which worked out perfectly because I had my mom and my fiance in there