When can I start pumping? I know he's only almost three days old but my nipples hurt so bad I cry when he eats:( I know it's not supposed to hurt and they said it's because I have "short nipples" I almost want to give up but I know it's not about me, it's about him and it's what's best for him. I feel like a failure at breastfeeding already:(
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Should I let my x know when labor starts
Victory Lenard·
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I pump Now and baby girl is 5 days old. I started yesterday
Victory Lenard·
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but I feel you on the pain. it's SOOOOOO painful when she eats but after she feeds for a while it goes away. you're not a failure momma. this is a learning experience for both of you.
Danielle·
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I pumped right away. my son is almost 2 weeks old and my nipples are still a little sore. Make sure you are latching correctly, I wasn't and since I found the correct way it's been much better. it does get better! I promise! good luck! @mom2be96
Victory Lenard·
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thank you @dani_8513 and they hospital said she had a good latch and it only hurts at first. after she nurses for a minute I'm fine