My bf had this friend who has been his friend sense 5th grade, so clearly they are close. Anyways he is always saying "I can't wait to see your son" but the thing is he will NOT come around my son. EVER. he does drugs, (cocaine, LSD, heroin) not on the reg but he does them and I am not putting my child in harms way of a druggie. And he was like oh I'll babysit for free. BABYSIT MY ASS. 😈
Its nothing spectacular lol but yea just something I did with my friends. @schevanya
I mean I never did in my life lol
I never smoked and have no plans to do it
Personally I wouldn't smoke anything around my son, I wouldn't risk it or when breastfeeding. I enjoy playing it safe especially when I've gone through 9 months to create something so amazing. Yes there are benefits of marijuana, I don't deny it, but I wouldn't bring it around a baby. @kaity0117 I think that is something you do when you know the child won't be in your care for more then 24 hours.
I'm not exactly sure, i want to breast feed too so that's a factor. And your body processes it differently during and after pregnancy (my boyfriends aunt owns two dispensarys and smoked before during and after her pregnancies). I might have smoked while pregnant but my boyfriend was worried about it so we decided together to not do it. And when I do smoke up again, I will either have someone there with me and my son, just in case I am too high to function. Or will do it when he's with grandparents or in someone else's care (which won't be for a while!) I think I'll know when I'm ready to do it again :)
Well ya I know that, but I was just stating I'm not one to judge someone for doing drugs when I myself smoked. Even tho they aren't comparable.. @mrs.aceves
Eventually even I'm going to smoke weed again. (So long as it doesn't affect my ability to look after my son. But yeah I wouldn't leave my kid unattended with someone like that. Have you talked to your boyfriend about it?
Marijuana is nothing compared to the drugs you just named. I used to be a drug user so I wouldnt even trust my damn self with a child LOL
no kidding! I'm not one to judge, I use to smoke marijuana, but not anymore. Especially when it is the safety of my new born baby. @mrs.aceves
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.

My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
I didn't do it because I thought it was fun I did it because it helped my pain, anxiety and emotional levels. So to me it was amazing thing! It was recommended to me by my doctor to smoke! And like I said I wouldn't smoke in front of him or while breast feeding. And I wouldn't put him at risk, meaning if I tried it once with a support system there and I wasn't fully capable or being the best mom to him while smoking then I simply wouldn't do it! I just don't want anyone to think I'd risk the well being of my baby! Honestly I think alcohol should be illegal and weed should be legal everywhere!