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My bf had this friend who has been his friend sense 5th grade, so clearly they are close. Anyways he is always saying "I…

My bf had this friend who has been his friend sense 5th grade, so clearly they are close. Anyways he is always saying "I can't wait to see your son" but the thing is he will NOT come around my son. EVER. he does drugs, (cocaine, LSD, heroin) not on the reg but he does them and I am not putting my child in harms way of a druggie. And he was like oh I'll babysit for free. BABYSIT MY ASS. 😈

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kaity0117

KaitlinВ ожидании первенца

I didn't do it because I thought it was fun I did it because it helped my pain, anxiety and emotional levels. So to me it was amazing thing! It was recommended to me by my doctor to smoke! And like I said I wouldn't smoke in front of him or while breast feeding. And I wouldn't put him at risk, meaning if I tried it once with a support system there and I wasn't fully capable or being the best mom to him while smoking then I simply wouldn't do it! I just don't want anyone to think I'd risk the well being of my baby! Honestly I think alcohol should be illegal and weed should be legal everywhere!

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macy2015

Macy

Its nothing spectacular lol but yea just something I did with my friends. @schevanya

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schevanya

schevanyaМама сына (2 года), беременна (29 нед.)

I mean I never did in my life lol

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macy2015

Macy

I won't do it again either, I'm too scared to hurt my baby. @schevanya

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schevanya

schevanyaМама сына (2 года), беременна (29 нед.)

I never smoked and have no plans to do it

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macy2015

Macy

Personally I wouldn't smoke anything around my son, I wouldn't risk it or when breastfeeding. I enjoy playing it safe especially when I've gone through 9 months to create something so amazing. Yes there are benefits of marijuana, I don't deny it, but I wouldn't bring it around a baby. @kaity0117 I think that is something you do when you know the child won't be in your care for more then 24 hours.

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kaity0117

KaitlinВ ожидании первенца

I'm not exactly sure, i want to breast feed too so that's a factor. And your body processes it differently during and after pregnancy (my boyfriends aunt owns two dispensarys and smoked before during and after her pregnancies). I might have smoked while pregnant but my boyfriend was worried about it so we decided together to not do it. And when I do smoke up again, I will either have someone there with me and my son, just in case I am too high to function. Or will do it when he's with grandparents or in someone else's care (which won't be for a while!) I think I'll know when I'm ready to do it again :)

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macy2015

Macy

and @kaity0117 how long are you planning on waiting? out of curiosity?

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macy2015

Macy

thank you! @mrs.aceves :)

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mrs.aceves

Ashley Aceves

id say you are making the right choice. Mommy knows best:)

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macy2015

Macy

Well ya I know that, but I was just stating I'm not one to judge someone for doing drugs when I myself smoked. Even tho they aren't comparable.. @mrs.aceves

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kaity0117

KaitlinВ ожидании первенца

Eventually even I'm going to smoke weed again. (So long as it doesn't affect my ability to look after my son. But yeah I wouldn't leave my kid unattended with someone like that. Have you talked to your boyfriend about it?

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mrs.aceves

Ashley Aceves

Marijuana is nothing compared to the drugs you just named. I used to be a drug user so I wouldnt even trust my damn self with a child LOL

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macy2015

Macy

no kidding! I'm not one to judge, I use to smoke marijuana, but not anymore. Especially when it is the safety of my new born baby. @mrs.aceves

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mrs.aceves

Ashley Aceves

hahaha drugs make a person do crazy shit. I wouldn't trust him.

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