Well i go on maternity leave after tomorrow. My husband just told me he wants me to stay home as long as possible. He said he can pay bills and I don't have to go back so soon especially if income tax comes. Made me smile but I still am not staying that long we going to need more money.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Anyone NOT want their hubby's/SO to stay at the hospital with you during your stay? I know it sounds harsh, but my husband stayed at the hospital during my stay when I had our son and he drove me crazy bc all he did was complain. Now he tells me (2 days before my csection) that he's going to stay and I don't want him to.
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I wish i had a friend to go with me to the tattoo studio later
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·
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must be nice... I wanted to be off 3 months after baby but due to me barely working now, I don't think I can take off that long anymore
Courtney Paige Nelson·
I didn't even know he wanted me off that long @sexii_diiva but my job has been very stressful I was going to find a new job while on maternity leave
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@sophmom that's probably why he wants you to start taking time off.. stress isn't good
kidtyme·
I have always found that it cost more for daycare than I could make working so I stayed home.
Courtney Paige Nelson·
@kidtyme Idk wat I plan on doing bit we will see it will be hard to find someone who allows newborns so I might stay home
kidtyme·
for me it was totally worth the sacrifice. you will know what's right for you when it's time. :)