haha no need to apologize you're alright. no harm done. it just bugs me how angry she got. buut whatever I'm sure many people would agree with me than disagree! @kateferrera

I know, I'm sorry. I've been having a rough night, clearly not thinking and im half asleep so I'm skimming through stuff. But you're absolutely correct. Smoking weed while pregnant... You're asking to get your baby to get taken away from you, I actually know someone who that has happened to.. & it's not worth it! Getting high isn't worth not having your child... You're a good person for mentioning that to her, seriously.. Some people wouldn't even care enough to say something. Oh well, she'll find out the hard way and be sorry in the end.

people don't listen until they go through it, at least you warned her.

yeah I can't make her quit smoking weed but I was trying to help her as a friend but whatever its her life and choice! it just made me so mad how she tried to get shitty with me @mrscalderon

yeah I get you. my cousin had her baby recently and the baby died 5 hours later for having bad lungs. I'm not sure if she smoked while pregnant, I doubt it but it might've been just by second hand smoke. either way, I'm nowhere near it because I don't want my baby taken from me or something worse

I just care about her! her friend shouldn't be smoking with her cause that's making it harder for to stop! @tibi2696

Well you're a good friend to be looking out for her and her babies best interest. Hopefully she will take your advice. Good luck! @klander95

yeah I mean I have read many things that weed will not harm your baby, but then I have read things that it will. its your choice if you smoke. as for drinking and partying I find that very wrong, I just don't want her baby to be taken from her @mrscalderon

It makes sense for you to say that I quit smoking weed when I found out at 6 weeks and ended up starting again because my friend who I hung out with everyday ALWAYS smoked around me took me with her to friends house so she could smoke and I could sit there and she wouldn't watch where she was blowing the smoke and it almost always went in my face I quit again and am finding it much easier now that I really don't see her.

I see a lot of girls on my Facebook that are supposedly pregnant but yet they go out to party, smoke, & drink. I'm 17, used to smoke & drink but once I got pregnant I stopped ALL of that for my daughter. I can't imagine her being taken away from me & if anything were to happen to her because of me, I would never forgive myself. people like her, don't deserve to have a baby. there's lots of girls who would love to get pregnant but can't yet she's smoking and trying to fight. sad

this whole post was just how shitty she got at me while for caring that they could take her baby. if she wants to smoke during pregnancy I do not care who does it. but at least stop sometime soon cause they will take your baby. she's my friend and I would hate for that to happen. but she jumped my ass. this post is just about that, not particularly smoking while pregnant. @mamabear2023 @kateferrera

before posting something like that, you should have looked closer cause I said smoking WEED. haha it's okay though it doesn't make you a bad mother. you are correct your baby can be harmed by stopping cold turkey in cigs so it is better to just cut back. I also don't think you are the devil if you smoke weed while pregnant, its a choice but they will take your baby. @kateferrera

This topic always causes arguments. Just like you wouldn't drink while pregnant you shouldn't smoke. But like I said, it's better to not say anything at all and let women make tier own decisions and if you're lucky enough to get away with it then good for you. And they do drug test your new born after birth. No one mentioned cigarettes by the way, smoking weed is the issue.

Oh! I feel like an idiot now for not reading the whole thing clearly! I apologize!!! ❤️

smoking weed..@kateferrera,

How can they take your baby away for smoking while pregnant?! I smoke cigarettes if that's what you're talking about.. & my doctor never says anything about it, ever.. I didn't know I was pregnant until I was 6 months & I was advised to just cut back, not quit because I could cause premature labor for quitting.. & by all means I would rather smoke while pregnant and go to term then quit and risk my child's life even more... It's a personal choice & "some people weren't meant to be mothers" is a wrong choice of words... You're not their doctor and you have no idea what plan she could have with her doctor.. That's really rude... I'm not trying to be a bitch or anything but that really hurts me that you would say something like that.. By all means we all have our own opinions yes but sometimes things are better left unsaid.. I wouldn't ever do anything that would potentially harm my child!!! Which is why my doctor & I discussed it and came to that decision.. Don't judge someone before you put yourself in their position and know the facts :/ as I said I'm not trying to be a bitch at all, just felt the need to defend myself and other pregnant cigarette @jrsmommy_x smokers... :/ @mamabear2023 @18andpregnant

yeah that's the same situation for me,I'm on my way but I like it, I was just trying to tell her the sooner she stops the better cause I don't want her to have go through any worry of having her baby taken, but whatever, it's her life, I just do not appreciate "if you have shit to say you can say it to me"like I AM TRYING TO HELP ugh 😑 @mamabear2023

Those kind of girls are the reason why people look down on young moms. I had my son at 19 also but I was already on my own. I moved out at 18 and was taking care of myself and I still got looked at as irresponsible. I've learned that it's not worth saying anything. She will learn on her from the huge mistakes she's making.

smh

if you wanna smoke while pregnant go for it, I smoked to, but stopped because they will take your baby away. in this post I said nothing about the whole smoking while pregnant, clearly it's their choice. but they will take your baby. that's the point here. @18andpregnant

yeah, and the dead beat dad isn't even around for her and she's only 17 and not ready, like I am 19 but I am not in highchool anymore and pregnant I have much better things to worry about than argue about me trying to help you and say you should not smoke anymore, I wasn't saying anything mean, it made me so mad @mamabear2023

a lot of woman smoke weed during pregnancy. I smoked before pregnancy and know a lot of woman who smoked and smoke while pregnant. I think its there choice.

So she wants to smoke and fight while being pregnant?? I hate ignorant girls that aren't ready for the responsibilities of motherhood yet choose to get pregnant.

yep I know, and I wasn't saying anything mean her friend just literally starts sooo much drama, me and the pregnant one are friends and I care about her and wanted her to stop and she comes at me all shitty @jrsmommy_x

your not the bad guy, it's just every woman isn't fit to be a mother. it's common sense not to do anything that can possibly harm your baby.