Sooo I dont want to hurt my grandmothers feelings but my boyfriend found us a house and is coming to get me thursday (he is fixing up our room and the baby's room) how do I tell her I am leaving...it is difficult because she thought that I was going to stay until the baby was born which I was but now she started back smoking (since july) and I cant take it anymore...its not just a cigarette here and there but try a pack and half a day with no air circulating which means the smoke just sits there...anywho I need help