Since my pregnancy, I've barely spent any time with my sister.. We've always been really close and hang out all the…
Since my pregnancy, I've barely spent any time with my sister.. We've always been really close and hang out all the time. She's a total party girl and basically just wants to drink all the time, and I can tell she's resentful that I've grown up so much in the last few years. It sucks that I feel like me being pregnant is driving us apart.. Anyone else going through something similar? How do you deal with it?
Kaitlin·
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It's just different lifestyles... If she was pregnant too or wanted to become pregnant I'm sure it would be different but growing a child has really changed me and I have lost touch with many people I used to see on a daily basis. Have you tried talking to her about it?
Alhy Berry·
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Someone I knew as my best friend for 14 years just went psycho on me. She has everything, money (parents left her a huge inheritance), beauty etc she is a socialite. We have always been close but ever since I met my husband she started being weird. I mean I obviously changed my lifestyle a little, didn't go out as much anymore etc so I thought that she was just reacting to that. When I posted my pregnancy test on Instagram though I realized that she had other issues. She told me that I'm being dumb and I'll never be happy etc. I forgave her and we moved on or so I thought, when we got married she went apeshit like literally cursed my life telling me that everything I have will fall apart etc. I couldn't believe it. I still don't understand but I realized that I had to move on with my life and leave her behind.😥
Alhy Berry·
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I realize that she must want what I have. I mean why else would she be so angry? All the guys she dates either want her money or just like her for her looks cause she has a sense of entitlement that makes her unattractive. I think she is jealous that I have settled down and starting a family
Alhy Berry·
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Your sister will learn to be happy for u hopefully. She is after all your sister. I think once the baby is born u will become closer than ever.
tara·
Thanks for the advice guys, I've tried talking to her about it plenty of times. She is very self focused.. Which is crazy since I'm going through the biggest change of my life & she's barely even shown any interest. It just hurts.. @kaity0117 @alhynele
Kaitlin·
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Well it's very unfortunate, and I'm sorry that's happening to you... some people don't change until after the baby comes I guess. Which sucks but sometimes people suck. Even family! My mom couldn't even say baby for the longest time and now she is more excited! And if she is self centred well there isn't much you can do about that. My little sister is the same but she is also 16 so I don't expect her to be concentrated on me cause I know she is self centred and can be a huge bitch! Pardon my French. I hope it changes for you. Maybe try to find someone else to connect with who is gonna take interest in what is going on you? :) i really hope it gets easier with your sister