My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤
What would you do? - baby shower SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever, I don't need her, I didn't have this baby for her to raise. I'm married, living on my own and paying all my own expenses.
My sister ISN'T lying she's had two miscarriages i was there comforting her for both of them she wouldn't lie about something like that
Well. Just started an IV. I'M GONNA HAVE A BABY!!!! EEEKK!!!
Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?
Rachael·
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I'm so sorry to hear about your mom honestly you don't need that drama right now I would just contact all your friend and family and go to lunch and let that be your baby showers cause honestly they arent that important I never had one and I'm 35+3 I don't fully understand where you are at the mom situation but I did just find out that my mom decided to stop her cancer treatment she has a rare cancer that has no cure and she stopped the treatment to enjoy the rest of her life I don't know weather to be upset or happy for her
Lauren·
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I had my MIL and grandmother in law do that at my birth, they were snooty at my baby shower didn't get up or move and put down everything that happened and made sure everyone knew what they got and made it about them, but the birth they said it wasn't about us it was about them, especially GIL, they never let me rest during labor, every time we said I was going to rest one of them would come in (GIL said she thought she's finally get to see her when she was in high school, and multiple other comments) and basically assumed they'd be in the delivery room while I was giving birth, and got mad when I wanted it to be just my guy and I, and wouldn't let me have my mom in their even if I wanted to, even when I was laboring. When I gave birth and my guy went to tell everyone, my grandma went to ask about me, and they flipped on her and said she was "ruining a family moment" and said yelled at them, and we had to get security to get them to leave, so after I gave birth I had to calm the situation, plus try to help my child. My family asked about me because my twin felt something was wrong, I was actually starting to lose a lot of blood so it was in good reason, and they ruined my birth experience and made it traumatizing, and they also didn't know I was pregnany until I was 5 months and knew the sex, and they basically downed us and her, and now make an act of liking her, and they tell us what we're gonna do, not suggestion, they put us down as parents and basically make our lives miserable. I can speak from experience in bad family problems, don't let them get to you, it'd make things while pregnant and after much harder, I know it's easier said than done, but I told you my story so you know I'm not trying to give you advice and not knowing anything about the situation, I can understand, but for you and baby's sake, don't let anyone get to you, if need be cut them off, go to YOUR shower wearing what you want, if she says something to you leave, can't have a baby shower with out mommy and baby. I have faith things will get better, if things are that bad don't invite her to the birth, and like I said leave or don't go to the baby shower. You have that right, you are mommy, you are strong and you can do this! Good luck darlin'! Sorry for the long message.
nichollette kovalick·
Omg! Forget that! I'd slap her so fast!
nichollette kovalick·
But I'm sorry about your mom! ;(
Toni·
That's so terrible I am so sorry to hear that. She sounds crazy and I'm so sorry about your mom. :(
Macy·
I'd rather have the baby shower my way then any other way, my cousin is planning mine and I told her if it doesn't go through me then it's not happening. all about respect!
Kate Caudill·
im sorry about your mom hun and its your baby shower it should be how u want it regardless of whos planning it shes gonna have to learn to respect you
sophia1212·
sorry for your loss my SIL is planning mine an things been great so far the baby shower is abt yu an if she dnt understand that an won't let yu wear what yu want then yu shouldn't go