advice...So the father of my little girl has a 9 month old son(one night stand gone wrong) and he had to have surgery for a colon problem, and I messaged the sons mom to say I hope he recovers well. and a month she got mad and through a fit to josh that I was messaging her, and blocked his mom for talking to me about the surgery. I'm afraid she's going to keep josh from ty because of me and Addalynn, what should I do. Any advice?
If he is too much of a chicken to stand up for your child then who needs him. I would say good riddance. Dead beat dads are the worse.
sorry for the bad language but fuck her you should be the only thing that matters
its really hard to have a healthy and happy relationship with your partners ex's/the parents of your partners other children, and you have to really be careful with how you interact with the children and their other parent. its super hard, i dealt with it with my parents, my step mother and mom didnt get along what so ever. dont keep yourself univolved with things.involving his mother, but try to stay neutral and if at all possible, think of how she might feel with decisions you and your husband make regarding his son, or have her be a part of them.
as much as u want to worry about him u main job is to bring your baby to the world n do for her even though it may seem rough I believe the universe unfold as it should even if we may find certain things difficult the woman battling with her own demons suggs u cant worry bout dat
he's not a dead beat dad, its trying to keep the peace I guess