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Another miserably hot, summer day. My kids haven’t even wanted to go outside for the last 3 days now bc of the awful heat. Not that I blame them but they’re getting stir crazy inside & there isn’t much else to do that they haven’t already done a 100x. I just wish this stupid heat wave would pass so we can actually do something outside of the house without feeling like we’re going to throw up from the weather.
I’m frustrated & I know all our friends are too bc their kids are also avoiding the outside & it’s just too freaking much. I’ve said it before & I’ll say it again…Summer weather is the absolute worst & we are all miserable over here! 🫠🥵😒

Father’s Day is approaching and I feel this in my soul.. every year is the same and I get extreme pressure from my mom to show up and be there to do something nice for my Dad. We aren’t close, we don’t talk unless I go to my parent’s house or they come here for an occasion unless he needs something then I’ll get a random text.
It’s always kinda been put on me that “I don’t try to have a relationship either” but now that I am a mom I couldn’t imagine not trying to fix what I’ve broken or not talking to my child to see how they are, I feel it’s a parents job to step up and be a parent not the child’s job. But anywho I just needed to get that off my chest somewhere safe.

If you read all this thanks you’re a trooper 🩷

If you were pregnant and the baby had some type of chromosome/health issue that would afffect their quality of life drastically would you terminate or keep?

No judgement, I’m just curious how everyone would handle it.

I’ve thought about this and I would terminate. I do not want to bring a child into this world that would not have a good quality of life. My decision is more so because I think about the future that child will have when I pass. Who will take care of them? Will they be in an assisted living facility, would they be cared for properly and if they didn’t have the mental capacity to understand what’s going on, how devastating it would be to have your person taking care of you for x amount of years, them passing and you being placed in a strangers care. I would be afraid that nobody could care for them the way I would and there is always the possibility that they are abused/neglected etc when I’m not around. I

Me having a hard time to decide what to do about my daughter. She has behavior therapy and my ex he tries to deny the help that she needs and the other place I went behind his back because he will deny everything that help that she needs so that's set up and they come to your house every two hours every day when it's set up but then, this other place that it took him so hard to even sign for my daughter to get the help that she needs and he was going back-and-forth getting the help that she needs and he finally signed with the other place that we have an appointment with, but I'm trying to figure out to get her in if he says no to the other place that we have an appointment together, but it's very hard because it's five hours a day five days a week and I can't do that and so the there this other place that has two hours five days a week that I can do but I don't know what I'm supposed to do because I already did it behind his back because he would say no to everything that she needs help on he saying she doesn’t have autism well she was tested for what u think to do?this other place doesn’t need his signature