Как справиться с проблемами в отношениях во время беременности
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I had some woman on here follow me then asked if we could talk. asked how far along I was, I told her then asked what kind of phone I had I told her asked why then she asked for my number.... I told her as nicely as I could that "I don't know you, so no" it was weird and creepy! I don't mind talking to people on here but just to be so forward like that has me suspicious of her intentions. Am I being to paranoid or would you do the same?! lol...
So my bf has been wanting/going out more often with his friends..and I can't help but get a little mad and irritated. I'm 34 weeks pregnant with a 9 month old,I have her all day.. he gets off of work tonight at 10 then wants to go out for his friends birthday. He knows how hard it is for me right now, he goes out but doesn't think let me take my girl out on a date so she can get a break. I'm feeling kinda hurt right now.. He just went out 2 days ago to a 66ers game for his work. What about me? I don't get to go out like he does, and just put aside his responsibilities for a few hours. Ugh ladies, tell me im not the only one that feels this way.. he's a great dad and is helpful when he's home, idk I just feel like he's not thinking about me being si pregnant and needing more help with our daughter.
девочки😫😭 в этом месяце опять не получилось зачать,сегодня опять месячные пришли.я уже не знаю что делать и что думать,уже нету сил.муж разочарован,я выматалась,еще и в добавок в эти выходные мы проводим все время с его родителями и тут своих конфликтов тоже не мало.в общем,не знаю что делать.и почему нам не посылают ляльку😪
My ex from like 5 yrs ago, he's so sweet. Sad cuz he will also call and check on the boys and ask of we need anything and their "dad" doesnt. But he sent this this morning.... made me smile and feel a lil loved! ignore the Grammer lol!
что делать, если парень стал пропадать, редко отвечает на звонки... редко пишет(скоро свадьба,только собираемся жить вместе). я нервничаю. ему все равно. говорит нормальные люди столько не общаются... хотя всегда так было раньше. ничего не понимаю.... может вообще трубки не брать весь день. и появиться только на следующий... беременна вторым. И не знаю,как себя вести. одна детей не потяну... может разлюбил?:-(
5 лет прожила с молодым человеком, который меня жутко ревновал, его родители обзывали и усложняли жизнь. потом вдруг всё наладилось и появилась своя квартира, но он стал очень унылым человеком, которой не хотел выходить из дома, лишь со скандалом. мог не есть днями. за эти годы внешне я очень испортилась, морально иссякли все силы. Словно бы что-то закрылось в душе. Ушла от него неожиданно и резко и теперь в новых отношениях 1, 5 года, но я не живая. меня словно бы больше нет. я не я. мёртвая девочка 30 лет =)) Сегодня, спустя 2 года мне кажется началось осознание на что я потратила 5 лет, как ко мне относились. Мне кажется меня сейчас взорвёт истерика =) или меня вырвет. Хочется стать опять живой и поверить в себя, почувствовать жизнь. Такие дела девоньки. Последствия нашего терпения в таких отношениях, детских травм могут быть офигенно серьёзные. Если у вас проблемы с мужем, если эти проблемы повторялись не с одним мужчиной, если вас бьют, унижают словами, если мужчина зависим от алкоголя/наркотиков/трудоголик или любые другие перекосы, что делают вас не счастливой... пожалуйста идите к психологу, в анонимные группы или хотя бы читайте книги. Я ушла от этого человека забрав исключительно свою одежду и рабочую технику... для меня в сложные психологические условия. И не жалею. Правда теперь висит задача понять почему я прожила 5 лет так и есть ли гарантия, что с другим мужчиной это не повторится. И как мне почувствовать жизнь... убрать это душевное онемение.
I am literally so mad, hurt and shocked right now I seriously wanna scream. 😔 why do guys have to be so damn ignorant sometimes? I swear he was the sweetest kindest guy ever until I got pregnant. 😰
I wish there was an "unfollow" or "hide posts" option on here like FB. I'm not bothered to the point of wanting to block out half of Preggie but MAN some girls on here are annoying as hell. I don't like when I log in and see women about to become MOTHERS talking bad on the same people they depend on, constantly whining about a piece of man YET refusing to leave (not the occasional vent, the SERIAL complaints), or being extra disagreeable in general. I know and use the favorites feature but I like to branch out and see what I have in common with newer members also. 😧
Девочки, такой вопрос...у так называемого "мужа" (развелись, но после решили попробовать ещё раз и живём вместе) в инстаграмме в друзьях его бывшая!! Он лайкает её фотки и меня это бесит!! Причём бесит до трясучки! Прошу отписаться, а он не в какую...как быть? Забить? Или встать в позу?
I really miss smoking weed! there are times when I need to ease my mind from the extra stuff going on but I'm doing what's best for my child. There is nothing wrong with smoking weed don't get me wrong but personally I stopped because I got pregnant. oh how I miss it though!
I feel so insecure...all my boyfriend do is talk to me about all the other females he sees and admires, who flirts with him, his exes, and who he is so in love with then when he looks at me all he call me is fatty or after I have the baby we gonna go to the gym together 😢😢😢
Some of you are rude af for no reason !
All of us are here to help and support each other ..and then there's y'all! How tf you on a social site not to be social?
#WellF***YouToThen
#QuickVent
#Aggravated
my boyfriend is mad at me cuz I was upset about him masturbating he hides it from me all the time . like I don't know about it. I don't know what to do or say anymore. I feel depressed. and it like he doesn't care anymore
My best friend just told me that she had been talking to this guy for a while and he kept trying to meet up with her but she was always busy (thankfully) but he was really flirty and cute and they were in the beginning stages of a "thing". So today she found him on Instagram....... and he had just posted a picture of his girlfriends sonogram. That makes me so sick to my stomach that some men could do that to their pregnant girlfriends/wives. That guy is a real piece of crap. I may complain about my boyfriend, but truly I'm the luckiest girl in the world and I'm so happy to have found one of the good guys.
Smh it's funny how I'm the one you did wrong but you ignore my texts cause I left you .. Cause you cheated and got a baby due in a week that you've lied to me about from the jump .. guys are so petty ! apparently I didn't amount up to anything to him .. but when he wants to text it's 3 days later asking how I'm doing or saying I love you .. don't worry about me kid worry about your daughter and continue to carry on 😧✌👌
I don't know if anyone else has this problem but I hate porn. For me it is extremely disrespectful when if my SO watches porn. We had an agreement that he wouldn't watch porn anymore and he has broken that promise more than once. It seriously breaks my heart. Anyone else have problems like this?
Having a partner that can't save money for shit is so annoying, he has a ps4 but now wants to go out and get a PS3 as well, we have a baby due in 13 days and he wants to get another fucking console, does he really think with a new born he will have time to play it, we have the money and we will have spare if he does buy it but why waste it on something he won't have time to use
I'm so attached to my s/o to where if he is busy and short texts me, it hurts my feelings. Just got done being a cry baby. Lord these damn hormones. At times I love him to death and then hate his guts then love him again.
On another note, he is buying me food now so I'm okay. lol.
I complain about my relationship here bc I won't on fb. I hate it when people act like their life is perfect when struggles and obstacles is what make life and meaning worth something. I also don't praise my life n facebook... I actually post really derogatory memes and make people upset with my own opinion.. shocker. I kind of live my life not revolved around social media. this is the only place I know other females can relate and not run their mouth about my bad day to make themselves feel better.
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My hubbys family don't like me at all. Anyways my hubbys ex they dated for 1 year and he said it was just a fuck buddy. He's whole family went to his ex's graduation. Not one came to mine. I'm upset about it and frustrated. I said I guess your family really liked your ex and he said yep.. Do y'all think I'm over reacting or not? Or is it just my pregnancy hormones?
maaan..makes no sense for me to have a boyfriend and still feel super one during this pregnancy smh I really just feel like breaking up with him and being on my own since I'm on my own anyways! I mean we temporarily live in two different states until I got back to Vegas but its like damn still make an effort to make me feel WANTED text me....something smh.... I get you going thru stuff but you still made a obligation to be in this relationship so you need to fulfill that! ugh ... I literally hear from him for a total of an hour or two a day spread out thru the whole day..and then when I complain about it I'm not being understanding and I'm nagging and shit..I'm just over it man...really just want to give up
Im upset. I left to go with my Mom to town and my brother thought it would be a good idea to smoke weed in the house and he normally smokes it outside. when I came home it was a strong Smell and stunk up the whole house and now I'm terribly afraid that it's gonna hurt my sweet innocent unborn baby:'( they are moving out in a couple of days.... mommies do you think it hurt it. I'm sick afraid and worrying.
Our Marriage is the best thing that's ever happened to me. This May we will be celebrating our 1 year of being married & we will get to celebrate our anniversary with our baby girl. God is good. He Blessed me well.
Since I got married my dad hasn't spoken to me. He didn't want me to get married. I am sorry! I am an adult and capable of making my own decisions.. I was in the Olympics for swimming, i finished my bachelors and masters degree, and I'm doing just fine!! I may be only 24 but i am not a baby! And now I am pregnant and he doesn't even care to pick up the phone so I can share the news with him 😢 breaks my heart.. He was an amazing dad and I totally lost him because I followed my heart. Sorry.. rant is over.
So Tha Fact That My Low Down As Boyfriend Has Truly Shown Me That He Dont Really Care About Me. 😢😢😭😭
I'm Sitting Literally Behind Him n Tears. He Doesn't Even Budge. I'm Apparently A Nobody. I'm Really n Need Of Some Friends Right Now. 😢😭😢😳😳😳