my boyfriend is mad at me cuz I was upset about him masturbating he hides it from me all the time . like I don't know about it. I don't know what to do or say anymore. I feel depressed. and it like he doesn't care anymore
@sarahmarie91, no problem sweetie you need to talk whenever I'm here. you're doing great staying strong
@ourmiracle2016, it helped very much thank you for talking about all this to me
@sarahmarie91, I'm sorry hun I know how frustrating this can be. if you do think he is cheating that's another thing tho because he could be hiding it because of other woman? I don't know the situation but if that's the case you don't deserve to be cheated on. obviously if that's not the case it can still hurt and make you feel insecure but don't let it get u down too much. you're beautiful :) let me know if that helped at all
thank u all . I couldn't take not having someone to understand how I feel anymore that's y I got on this app
@jellibeanbam, thanks for your help . I am and come to think about it praying is one thing I haven't been doing. it just helps talk to someone about stuff
@sarahmarie91, I think your just extra EMO cuz of the baby hormones and stuff and that's okay. Everything will be fine. Just focus on the baby. I don't know if your religious or not but I always say...pray your problems away😍❤️
@jellibeanbam, yes we have sex all the time. and I tell myself that it's better than him going out and fucking someone else. I guess I am just confused . that's y I talk to u all about it
that's what I have been dealing with. we r having a baby in a few months now and I am getting depressed and it's all me not him .I am hopeing maybe after the baby comes he will wake up
I don't really see the issue. Even if it's in excess.... Would u rather him go cheat or sit at home and masturbate? Does he still have sex with you? Is it like a serious marital problem where you should worry yourself over it?
@sarahmarie91, that's exactly how my ex will get. He'll get mad at me for catching him and then will try to turn everything around and make me seem like the bad one. It's so annoying. I would catch him on a weekly basis 🙄
@hamman13, @ketymrtnz I do talk to him and he just gets mad and turns it around like I did something I really don't know what to do anymore I don't think he will see it till I and the baby r gone
I had this issue with my daughters biological father and unfortunately he wouldn't stop. I would try to catch my hubs cause of how much my ex would do it and apparently he doesn't do it at all. A man will only change if he wants to.
I recently saw messages from other woman on his phone is I don't think it just him needing it like normal . if it was I wouldn't care if he does it
trying to some day's I don't know if I can anymore