Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Make your own breakfast! At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
whats your name? I was thinking we have all been on here together for over a year now and alls we know is each others screen names.......... so whats everybodys real names? Im Amy
Be honest ladies, as a 27ish year old, would you like this as a wedding gift?
Icebergahead·
Мама сына (12 лет)
Maybe sentimental gifting is not his best department when handling special events. He was always like this or is this kinda new?
You guys could brainstorm something together to celebrate it even if it was a few weeks ago. Doing something together😁
Dh is terrible at planning. I am the planner so I know this is not his territory and would get flustered and stressed out. Air fryer is a thoughtful gift overall if you’ve been hinting at it and had it in your wishlist.
Andy··
Мама троих детей
We never have time to do anything together. We haven't been on a date in almost 6 years. Don't have anyone to watch all three kids at once . And yes he has given me jewelry the first couple years we were together
DragonTrainer1·
We don't even buy gifts for each other for anniversary
Llama Pantaloons··
Мама сына-младенца
Same. 😂 We’ve been together like 14 years and married 4 I think…I dont even remember the last time we gave each other an anniversary present.
DragonTrainer1··
yeah we been today 11 and married 5 this may and nope we do buy each other a card but that's it we don't even get to go on a date to celebrate. I am trying to do a date night this year and seeing if our photographer could do a mini photo shoot downtown before our dinner to celebrate 5 years. I wish we did all the fun romantic stuff but that's not his love language and we never have a babysitter
Andy··
Мама троих детей
we have been together 12 years and he always gets me something
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ·
Did you guys go out to celebrate at all? We don't really get anniversary gifts at all...maybe a card and a little somethin but we go on a vacation every year to celebrate instead even if it's a staycation. If we didn't however...I would want something more than a damn air fryer especially for 10 years lol..that's a special one. Did you get him something?
Andy··
Мама троих детей
They don't have the time or the money to do any of that and no one to watch the kids. Nope because we weren't getting along at the time and I was pissed lol. But he doesn't care
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ··
well maybe since y'all weren't in a good place that's why he didn't think much into a gift or outting. Maybe next year will be better for y'all. I would still feel some type of way tho arguing or not lol
Jay·
Мама сына (10 лет)
We don't do anniversary gifts, and we're going on 15 years this year. It's usually nice cards, nice dinner, or a small weekend trip. I never really understood the need to give gifts on an anniversary, but I know some people do.
Mnh✨·
Is this his style? Did he always give you anniversary presents that weren’t sentimental until this?
Andy··
Мама троих детей
Well something a little more special than an air fryer something used to cook with lol.
So Royal·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
I'm really thinking it's the thought that counts, but, I wonder if he just got you a gift because he thought he SHOULD get you a gift, or he got a gift because he WANTED to get you a gift.
You said you guys don't get along well at all, and you're basically just together because you have kids together. It just seems like he has, (or both of you have,) checked out of the relationship and is waiting for something to happen to put both foot out.
I really think the air fryer anniversary gift is the least of any issues, if I can be honest. More time could be invested in making the relationship better, then the gifts would, once again, be more well catered.
I also think that you absolutely have a right to your feelings. I do wonder, though, how he feels, having not gotten a gift at all, despite that you guys were fighting at the time. I just think the gift is irrelevant and superficial when taking everything into consideration. I wouldn't even be mad about it.
Andy··
Мама троих детей
I agree with you on the he thought he should get me a gift that's what I was thinking too without looking like a a****** without getting me a gift. But it's so hard to work on a relationship we both work full-time we have a child with mental disabilities like bad and the twins it's like constant it's either kids or work it's all it's ever about. Or cleaning up this house after them constantly
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz·
Personally I’d be happy. But I have an air fryer. If it was something I was wanting/asking for I’d be happy. If it was something like house decor/jewelry (which I’m highly picky on) I wouldn’t like that. I’m picky on a lot of stuff like flowers, candy, jewelry… so hubs just stopped. I’m more grateful on that. Just get me wine and chips and I’m HAPPY.
We did agree on our 5 wedding anniversary we’re upgrading my ring. Together for 11. Married for 2.
Lindsey·
Let me preface this with my husband always does gifts but sometimes I’ve got to pretend to like said gifts LOL 😂 But he really tries…but I would be THRILLED if he picked something off a wishlist I made bc I’m particular & I know I’d get something I wanted. I wouldn’t care what it was lol 😂 We’ve been together 13 years, married 10.5 years. And all we did for 10 years was cards & he got me a weighted blanket I was wanting but wouldn’t spend the money on. 😆