Как поддержать маму в трудной ситуации, а не осуждать?
So there is a video going around on TikTok basically how this mother of four under four and she lives in a hotel and people are saying practically that she shouldn’t have another child. Basically they are judging her and that’s one thing I don’t understand is people let alone, single mothers? How can you sit there and judge a single mother that was just put in a bad situation?
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@sammenewborn sometimes people need to be judged, honestly. There is no way your current situation status should be "struggle," and you're thinking "oh yeah, I'm currently trying to get pregnant... I need another baby to neglect." People just aren't as sympathetic towards individuals who do stupid things anymore
So she wants a fifth child and she's already living in a motel doesn't seem right to have more children to me. Probably living off the state too and getting food stamps and stuff if she's living in a motel
I don’t know, but I got a feeling like not all of the stories being told hail for all we know is that she was probably living with somebody and that situation had ended and she was forced to go to a hotel. Who knows she may be on section 8 we don’t know.
I must add, I've never seen that video, this is the first time I've heard about it.
My thing is why would you want to bring another child into this world when you’re in this bad situation with four kids already? Why not get out of the situation, get you and your children a place to live and have a steady income before bringing another child into the world you can’t afford to feed or buy clothes for?
I always say they want more people to struggle with them. That must be it. How can you be in a situation where you can barely take care of the children you have, or can't take care of them at all, and then you plan to have more children? That's selfish and wicked. No one will benefit from that, those children are just going to suffer (even if they don't know that they are suffering/struggling). You need to love your children enough to not let them be in such an environment. People need to evaluate themselves and raise their standards, don't have kids you can't afford...
who are you to judge how a woman take care of her kids so what if she gets wic or food stamps or medical assistance that’s none of nobody business i seen to many of these post judging women of how they take care of there kids i’m a single mother of three and if i need assistance that’s my business not anybody else times is hard out here sorry if everybody don’t get help from there husbands or boyfriends or kids father it is single moms out here that is going to make sure there babies eat i said ...
How hard was it
To become a single mother?
i’m not trying to judge or anything buttttt this girl on my facebook has complained about being a “single mother” since she first got pregnant w/ her first baby.. all her kids have the same dad & she complains about him messing w/ other people etc.. but she has not 1, not 2, not 3, but 4 kids w/ the man 🤦🏼♀️ if you complain about him with the FIRST baby why would you have FOUR ?!?
I realized a lot of the people that judge on here don’t even have pics up! Lol so they just hide behind a phone or computer and judge others all day?? I’m sure y’all don’t live a perfect life 🙄
How long have you and your partner been together? How did y'all meet ? No judging 👀
I don’t know I’m just a firm believer of everything happening in all at once. Who knows maybe she got things lined up and maybe she’s just playing a bad situation. We don’t fully know. I just don’t like to judge people.