Why do people cut me off when I express myself?
Feeling so worn out lately with little sleep, with all of my classes this semester, especially with the assignments. Then I have to deal with petty attitudes on top of that from a friend, a relative and my bf etc. 😭 F everyone. I care about how I feel not how they feel anymore lol. My so called friend pissed me off by throwing Micro aggressions at me a few weeks ago and I’m still pissed off about it that I just don’t feel like calling her to talk about it. It’s like talking to a wall. It doesn’t go anywhere. I never realized how racist some Latinos can be over here towards other Latinos, it’s insane. It’s like a South American thing vs a caribbean thing which is ridiculous because it shouldn’t be like that. That’s all I’ve been hearing lately and it’s annoying as hell or laughing at me when I speak Spanish because it’s not “proper Spanish”. No hun, Spain won’t let you sit at their table because you don’t speak proper Spanish either. 😂 Also you won’t get a seat at the nazi table if that’s what you are looking for. 🤡
Sorry I had to get that off my chest lol. I hate when I want to express myself and the people I try to say something to so I can let them know what they did or said was wrong, they cut me off or divert the attention to something else because they think they are in the right always. 🤮
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I feel like she is more of a frenemy than an actual friend. I have known her for years and tried to let some of the rude s*** slide by over the years because I realized that she learned a lot of this behavior from her mom. Now I am reevaluating this friendship and realizing why other people stopped being her friend. She can be downright racist at times and rude. I don’t even know if she is 100% aware of this.
She definitely has self hatred from where her mom is from because her mom is ashamed herself of where she comes from as well. It is like if they act like a colonizer themselves instead of being proud of where they are from. In their minds, if they accept where they are from, then they will feel oppressed and looked down on. It makes no sense. Her mom is from Ecuador but they look down on Caribbean latinos as savages and they hate indigenous people from Ecuador because they have nothing to do with them. They deny being mestizo even though they are mestizo. One time she told me that all of Latin America looks down on Caribbean Latinos as being on the bottom of the pyramid.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
I swear y’all kill me when people ask questions about THEIR child. If my child is 4m or 5m & I put a little cereal in the bottle it’s nothing wrong with it at all. NOTHING , especially if his doctor already gave me the go ahead. My god, each one teach their own though.
it’s 10 am where I am rn , do not come on my post with , articles about whatever. I’ll tell you kiss my ass today.
AM I THE ONLY ONE
Who feels like when I'm on the highway traveling and me and a car follow eachother for awhile, I feel like we are friends and when they exit I get sad?!? Because if I'm not the only one who feels like this then I have the BEST story of my life for you.
Sounds like they have some brewing battles within them and carry it out negatively towards others.
Classic case of drawing pain onto others to feel a tad bit alive.
I am so sorry. This is when you shut them out if they are just going to continue with it.
Your SO is something else😓