Has anyone had to file a restraining order against the other parent while having to COPARENT with them since they are mainly harassing you? I’m really considering involving the courts for full custody but not sure if i could even afford doing all of that but something has to give because i am currently almost 22 weeks pregnant w my current partners child and I’m worried the father of my 3 other girls is going to stress me out too much cuz he has been a complete devils spawn since knowing I’m pregnant. If you have a similar situation plz lmk I’d like some advice.
@ariliyahzihmommy3, ya that’s why a court order helps a lot bc without one, you both have legal rights to keep them. Establishing physical and legal custody is in everyone’s best interest even before a conflict happens.
@momgroupreject, how long or how many times did y’all end up going to court?
Do you have a custody order in place right now? When I was going through all of my BS, the court mandated him to only talk through the parenting portal and it was heavily monitored and had to be specifically about our son. You can absolutely ask for no contact and just show that he isn’t even bothering you about the kids. If he fucks up with the parenting portal then it’s all bad for him. It’s not unreasonable to expect the other parent to be respectful to you. He should not feel the need to discuss anything besides the kids with you.