Дети выросли: как пережить их самостоятельность?

My daughter has been telling me she wants to do her own laundry and I told her to wait cause I was working but now that I quit I told her she could, they did one load I went right now to put it in the dryer and start the other cause they are still kids I didn’t expect them to keep up with it. To my surprise they already put it in the dryer and placed their second load to wash 😳. I’m all for the independence but not gonna lie my heart is breaking at how fast they are growing and really aren’t babies anymore.