I’m so sorry 😢 Sept 4th? Happy Birthday to your dad! I lost my brother on Sept 5th last year. His birthday is Christmas eve.
This/His first birthday will be rocky but you will navigate through the day. Feel whatever comes and let go of whatever wants to go. (cry when needed) I spent my brothers birthday with our immediate family and it was beautiful. I wish you peace and many memories for this beautiful day approaching.
i’m really sorry. losing a parent is so devastating. it’s really hard, i’m here if you ever want to talk. i lost my dad when i was 12 and my mom just passed away in july. i understand your pain.