And I do too. 🤣 It's an account of a guy I've had for years to lurk. Don't judge 🤔 Almost 5,000 friends on it & had it…

@kimsnowden8593, his son will see the truth and end up hating her. But he might hate his dad for not trying harder. It’s a tough scenario

yeah you're right but there's only so much one person can do if the other person is being a Hindrance but I still pray about the situation.

I only know because we are going through something similar. My SO son even changed his last name because of the hate that was shown towards his dad. His ex literally told me ‘I wish he would off himself, my life would be easier’ and told me to ‘drug him, put him in the car, take him to the notary and make him sign the name change’. She threatened so many things. It was all planned. She tried to have a name change when he was 4 and the judge wouldn’t allow it just added the -last name to my so’s last name. She knew the law and she waited until he was of age to make that decision. And went in for the kill. Shiesty stuff. Cant believe it. We pay for his cell phone and he blocked his dads number too.

Kids hold on to every thing. I pray things change for the better in your situation. It is very difficult. Stay strong. Have your SO write letters to give his son when he sees him. So he knows how often he was thought of. Maybe even use a journal. Write stories of what is going on. So it’s like he never missed a day. Trying to have my SO do the same, but it’s hard. It hurts, because his son acts like he hates his dad, . But he doesn’t know how vindictive his mother is.