Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Birth Plan Rant I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(
XryztalRoze·
I am SOOOO SORRY your provider is not being forthright with providing you you own personal health information and find it beyond troubling. Many hugs and prayers for answers that will unlock the mystery for your son's conditions. Prayers and hugs sent your way!!!
tiera shaye ··
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)
Thank you. Yes it’s beyond frustrating because it’s like why Withhold this information from me. We live in a rule Ohio which I get. But it’s starting to come to light that there’s a lot of malpractice around us. It’s truly sad. But I am just happy the outcome was good. Especially with all that I found out that was actually going on.
XryztalRoze··
I'm not one for taking legal action under normal circumstances but in cases of malpractice where a child was potentially hurt and others may be at risk I would honestly consult legal representation to see if there is anything that you can do to bring this to public attention. Obviously be careful a d tread lightly but it's worth looking into.
Natasha·
Мама дочки (3 года)
I am sorry to hear this. Legally they are supposed to respond to medical record requests within a certain time frame. I can't remember the time frame. But see if there is a form you fill out, fill it out, make copies, call them and tell them you are faxing it and certified mailing. Inform them if they don't get you your records by a certain date (look up your states law), that you will be contacting your attorney. Now most times when you see an ob for pregnancy they give you paperwork to fill out telling you where your placenta and any birth "waste" as it was worded in mine goes and that the placenta may go to a pathologist or donated to science unless you state otherwise. If you sign just an electronic pad make them explain everything in detail or you want a printout of what you sign.
The hospital also may be getting audited and just now going through records. Hence it just showing up now.
I'm a med assistant and learned all this in school.
Also you want paper not disk.
tiera shaye ··
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)
Thank you. Yes I think they are freaking out and finally going through them. Apparently a gentleman has made a tell all book about how this hospital almost lost its accreditation because of the issues happening there. So I’m sure they are being looked into and have been. Which I also just found out my OB I had at the time has had many malpractice complaints. 😢 she was relatively new when I began seeing her. Most the OB’s were because the rest retired or left. It’s just such a screwed up situation but I’m just glad there wasn’t a horrible outcome.
Natasha··
Мама дочки (3 года)
goodness sorry to hear that.