Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Rant: my son is almost 16 months, yes, I whoop his butt when he runs from me when I try to change his butt or get him dressed, and yes, I spank his butt if he flips over during a diaper change, and yes I smack his hand when he hurts other people, and yes, it has helped a lot.
Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but then tells me halfway through the week he can't take him Friday until Saturday due to taking up an optional shift at work, can I legally tell him he either takes him Friday at his ordered time or doesn't get him? He's constantly cancelling whole weekends or taking our son a quarter of his ordered time. He also isn't following the meets on the order. Almost every Sunday he has him I get a message that he doesn't have a car so I have to get my son, or he tells me i have to run him out there. I'm already having cut hours at work and getting no child support from him since he's been continuously in and out of work.
Genevieve ·
Are they telling you because they think you need to take action? Or are they telling you so that you know? That might sound like a tricky question but I work in a nursery.
We sometime tell parents “we’ve had to remind them about kind hands today, they’ve been .........” we tell parents this so they realise that words have been had and that these things are happening.
Or are they telling you because they feel further support is needed?
You need to ask this question. Ask what you can do about it? Do they feel it’s more than just a phase? (A lot of children go through this). Sharing is new, interacting with other children is new. It’s all new and sometimes they play up.
Do they think he needs referring to speech and language?
Ask to have a chat with his key worker and clear these things up
Tammy ··
@kshelley awww Goodluck you'll be fine definitely keep me updated on what they suggest to do, Aww that must break your heart I'm sure he does play with them an you just log in at the wrong time hopefully, I personally think it's due to the lack of communication and with his been with older children it's better for him to follow them it will help him more than we both think. Xx
Tammy ··
@kshelley awww Goodluck you'll be fine definitely keep me updated on what they suggest to do, Aww that must break your heart I'm sure he does play with them an you just log in at the wrong time hopefully, I personally think it's due to the lack of communication and with his been with older children it's better for him to follow them it will help him more than we both think. Xx
KShell17··
thank you, yes I will do . Hope things work out for your little boy too. Ye I hope its just a phase and he'll soon get used to how to play with others better. Xx