Think it's so sad the position some dads are in regards to trying to get contact with their children. We spoke to a…
Think it's so sad the position some dads are in regards to trying to get contact with their children. We spoke to a solicitor and got told that we could pay £1000's to take my partners ex girlfriend to court for her to still slam the door in his face and all he could do would be to take her back to court.
I also have a friend on my Facebook in the same situation and he puts up updates about the fact hes spent over £26,000 on court fees and took his ex to court three times and she still refuses contact.
Not to mention the fact the mother has to pay nothing.
I honestly think unless a mother has a hell of a good reason like violence etc they should be prosecuted for not allowing contact.
(I'm obviously not talking about the deadbeat dads that haven't bothered for years but the ones that have been constantly battling to see their child should have more behind them to help them.)
Jessica🦋·
Мама троих детей
Oh wow! What a complete arsehole she is! Shit like this infuriates me!🤬xxx
Kelsey··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (5 нед.)
I know! Actually makes my blood boil as she goes around telling people that my partner doesnt bother anymore and is a shit dad. Why do you think that is 🤦♀️ she made it practically impossible xxx
Kerry.·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (13 нед.)
The only way she would get legal aid is if she claims she was a victim of domestic violence.
We're in the exact same position with my partners kids. We've been to court, she's refused mediation and we can't afford to take her back to court again. She gets all of her fees free as she claims he was abusive throughout their relationship. We got a copy of her statement and it was actually ridiculous, she was claiming my partner would demand branded T-shirts every week and if she didn't he would batter her
Kelsey··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (5 нед.)
😂😂😂 yeah weve had that aswell, claimed he was violent during their relationship. My partner has never laid a finger on me and I've been told by a mutual friend shes cried rape, violence and all sorts on her new current boyfriend. Never met a girl so vile! Xx
Kelsey·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (5 нед.)
And selling Christmas presents my partner bought his son 🙄
J··
Мама троих детей
What a cunt.
Kelsey··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (5 нед.)
honestly never wished bad on someone so much in my life! He paid her nearly £3000 in maintenance in 6 months Xx
Kelsey·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (5 нед.)
To put this perspective a bit, a lovely text to my partner off his ex girlfriend a while ago. Just to show the lovely sort of person we are dealing with 😩
Kate Bodell·
Мама четверых детей
I had to pay my court fees. Cost me thousands and he still can’t be arsed to see him
Kelsey··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (5 нед.)
Really?! We got told she wouldn't have to pay anything even if we took her to court. As I said though I'm not on about the crap dads that cant be arsed I know theres a lot of them. 🙄 xx
Kate Bodell··
Мама четверых детей
I think there are certain circumstances you don’t have to pay but I think if she has a solicitor she will have to pay for them.
Some men are dicks and can’t be arsed and then you have decent dads being denied access because of bitter women!
Shaz·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (3 нед.)
Definitely! More needs to be done for the dads that are actually trying. They are only young once and this time with their dad is sooo important!
Kelsey··
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (5 нед.)
Exactly! It's so sad! No wonder fathers give up it seems legally mothers have all the power 😩 xx