it really irritates me when people ask what just the babies want for christmas 😒 like really yall there is also a Jerri who will pick up on the babies having gift sent here and she not get something. of course Jerri will get plenty but pisses me off when people go "what do the babies want or need for christmas" like if you can't buy for all 3 don't buy for the 2 either.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Birth Plan Rant I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
I know I've posted this before but when your water was leaking did it stay leaking or just with movements or what? Did you get contractions shortly after or no? I rolled out of bed and felt warmth leak out but Idk if it was possibly urine or what...never had it happen. It didn't smell like anything really...I know I should either call l&d or go in but I just want some experiences please. I want to wait a bit just in case it's nothing.
What the hell that pisses me off when people ask me if I'm really pregnant? I'm hella excited that I am; is that so wrong?!??
stkrdknmibalz·
Yeah that's some bullshit
Goth_Mom··
exactly!!! my older brother was always the favorite golden child growing up and still is to this day but i don't want Jerri feeling like i did growing up because people favored the twins and not her
M_🖤·
Yeah, that’s bull crap. It’s either all or nothing
Goth_Mom··
exactly i have only had one family member send all 3 girls something and that meant the world to me that they sent her something also
M_🖤··
atleast someone used their brain!
Goth_Mom··
@michellemybell09, exactly i don't get people
JenX·
Yeah, I would be especially sensitive to a nearly 5 year old in a pandemic having a great Christmas as opposed to babies who don't know it's Christmas and just want to be loved and cuddled and they will be. You know what I mean? Like send wipes and diapers. Gift cards.
Goth_Mom··
i mean i like to keep the fairness due to have i grew up my brother was the favorite i was kinda just in the background. even when i get the girls outfits i also get jerri outfits if they get new binkies jerri gets a small toy. if they ain't going to send Jerri something also either don't send nothing at all or send money or gift card so i can go get all 3 something
M.·
I get this alot about my youngest but to me their asking because they aren't around my youngest alot. My older 3 are always out and about with their cousins and what not so they already have an idea of what to get them, but when it comes too my youngest they really have no idea.
But I mean if they are only buying for the babies that's really shitty of them.
Goth_Mom··
shockingly it's people that aren't even around us or only met jerri handful of times that never offered to get her christmas or birthday. have the girls and now all of a sudden people wanna buy for em like they been around the whole time
Bridgett·
Мама четверых детей
I feel this cuz I have four Nd when that happens I just keep whatever the one got I’ll either bring it back Nd take them to do sumthn or buy them all sumthn either the credit or whatever
What's It To You?·
This is why we don't invite any one to my youngests Birthday or go to any family holidays unless it's my dad's stuff. Got tired of them leaving out my oldest 2 years in a row, "couldn't" attend her birthday but could attend my youngests. She's old enough to pick up on it and I'm not having her left out.
Goth_Mom··
exactly Jerri is the same like the baby shower (done on facebook) she was super jealous so we surprised her and also made her a part of it too she got little gifts and balloons etc. to feel like she was apart of it too cause i know it was hard for her from going to gettin all the attention to some of that attention being taken to go towards babies.
i haven't figured out what pisses me off more people just asking what the twins want or the fact that these people have never once offered to send Jerri something for her birthday or christmas or when she was a baby or when i was pregnant. but damn have twins and everyone wanna buy for em see em and act like they been around this whole time
What's It To You?··
I'd be extremely pissed at both honestly. Like how are you gonna switch up just because they're twins and treat them completely different than a child who's existed quite a while.
Goth_Mom··
i mean it is bullshit even when i was pregnant once everyone found out they were twins folks i ain't talked to in years trying to run their lip like they know me and we just close as we could be and always "i'm here if you need anything" but have em and it's a bunch of damn crickets unless they can broadcast on facebook that they spent or going to spend money on em. i get identical twins are rare no one in my family has em but don't act like family now just because of that cause it's two faced
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz·
Awe so sorry for your little girl that is so unfair.
But also wouldn’t people rather buy for your older child than the babies right now because it’s not like they can really play with things? I just tell them to buy them diapers and wipes.