How is it that something can be in your face and you never realized it ! I just found out my father…
How is it that something can be in your face and you never realized it ! I just found out my father is bisexual and to think about it now there was a man who came up to my sister and I when I was a freshman in high school and said he missed my dad when he left the USA. He told us he was his lover but I never trully thought of it like until now and my father on Facebook put intrested in men and women. I am ok with who ever people choose to love no judgment but I his daughter had no idea until today age 33 and I'm guessing I was too focused on trying to separate him from hitting my mother all the time that I didnt even notice anything else except his hands I can still picture them so strong and heavy with a heavy watch.
AJ·
Wow that is interesting! I’m sorry you had to see him do those things to your mother.
Crazy that you find out now, it is like he had a double life back then. It could be possible that he was embarrassed to come out to you and your sister. The man who came up to you and your sister and said he is your fathers lover, were your parents still together that time or your father was separated from you mother that time?
Vee··
Мама двоих (2 года, 10 лет)
He would always cheat and say ny mom cheated so I'm not sure
AJ·
@verguinia, oh wow. He could have put your mother at risk to catch something. 😩 That is terrible.
Vee··
Мама двоих (2 года, 10 лет)
I'm still speechless and the man he was with lived in our building and they looked alike my dad and this man looked alike alot and that man was always sad when he saw my sister and I and sometime that man would say hi and we thought we was creapy but now i see he was just heart broken that my father left probably without even saying goodbye. That man looked so emotional towards us and we was so confused because he was a very strong macho looking man but was looking very fragile all of a sudden🤔
AJ·
@verguinia, in a way I feel bad for that guy too. He seemed to be really in love with your father. Your father could have been playing with him too and maybe he didn’t take him seriously.😔
Vee··
Мама двоих (2 года, 10 лет)
I do too now but back then I had no idea ! I think my dad trully was hiding and didnt want no one knowing maybe 🤷♀️