Those who know my story, I just tested positive for chlamydia. I know if I tell him he’s going to blame me. I hate how he can’t tell the truth. Remember the girl said she had sexual with him
March April well I guess it’s true because I got tested in January all negative now after I found out about her I went to get tested and I tested positive. I’m beyond broken. Why....
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@ms.bird, no don’t feel stupid. It isn’t your fault, you just wanted your marriage to work. You didn’t deserve to go through all of this with him. I am glad that you are no longer with him. Now you see that he doesn’t care and is a very selfish person, only caring about his needs and wants with someone else.
@ms.bird, you made me laugh what you said about your friend having it like a pinkie size lol but in all seriousness your ex is a jerk. That is an easy excuse for him to blame you. He thinks it’s not him but it is and I don’t believe that he always protects himself that is bs. He already crossed the line by cheating. A guy like him wouldn’t care about protecting themselves. Men like this are extremely selfish and just care about getting off, they don’t care who they hurt in the process. They just care how they are feeling and get what they want, when they want it. I’m sorry you have to deal with his bs. He’s a waste of time and his stupid lover would probably blame you as well. She probably doesn’t care to get tested or him. They are perfect for each other, living a wreck less lifestyle.
Agreed. I feel so stupid, trying to hold on to this marriage and praying he’d be a better man only for this to happen. I’m horrified.
I’m over this bullshit he makes me feel like I’m crazy know very well he does all his shit behind my back. I’m 100% done no more chance no more lies I’m done. Thank you ladies for being here for me thank you so much. I appreciate you all.❤️❤️❤️
I even asked the doctors me knowing better could I have had it all this time they said no the test would have come back positive oct and Jan
He tried to blame me!! Can you believe that shit ? We separated back June 2019 and I did sleep with an old friend sept 2019 the dude was able to put his penis in me for less then a min because he had a condition which I didn’t know about his penis was the size of my pinkie never the less I didn’t use a condom for those 40 second which same on me but I did get tested oct 2019 all negative when my husband and I decided to try again 🙄🤦🏻♀️ be begged me and found out about the guy and “forgave” me then I seen something on his phone and I got tested in January again all negative when I found out about this girl I said screw it im getting tested that was July 28 well came back positive I told my husband I know he slept with someone because my test came back positive he got angry and said don’t start point fingers dirty hoe you had sex with that guy no condom, I always use condoms on these bitches I said well apparently not or it didn’t work because I’m positive and haven’t been with anyone my test prove I was clean after I slept with him he said the test are wrong I probably had this whole time, I said really ?? Negative in Oct and January? Come on dude now it’s positive and that girl told me y’all had sex in March April. I told him I’m done I’m sick of this shit he said I’m not you’re nasty it’s you if I have it you gave it to me 🤦🏻♀️😭😭😭 I’m so
Angry this asshole won’t admit and is blaming me I feel like screaming. I know it’s not me I have my test to
Prove it yet he’s making it like it’s my fault wtf
@ms.bird smh, he's such a low life, too bad you can't have him locked up for stressing you out. No way you would test negative in Oct and Jan, but positive in July from an encounter in September, smh. This is a bacteria, it doesn't hide then pop up, it's always front and center. You should call up ole girl again and tell her, see what her reaction is. At this point, I wonder if they both knew about it and never told you, smh.
I can't believe he even spoke to you like that, smh, what is wrong with him? When was the last time he got tested? So he thinks he's had it since last October?... can't even get on his train of thought.
@mywittyusername, The dude prides himself on not getting tested because he doesn’t have sex without condoms or doesn’t have sex with “dirty” girls so why get tested 🤦🏻♀️🤡 that’s what he says. Okay dude you’re out fucking every Tom dick and Harry. I feel so stupid.
@ms.bird you have a good heart, it doesn't allow you to give up without trying and fighting like crazy first, that's a beautiful thing. It doesn't make you stupid, it makes you very brave, it makes you a great person. Some people don't deserve to have someone like you in their lives, he doesn't deserve to have you in his life. He's just literal germs, and he's toxic. He's going to infect you with poison and ruin you.
Now, him? He's stupid, he's the only idiot in the equation. He's nasty, any std/sti, I imagine, it's devastating, but, it wasn't HIV this time; next time you might not be so... fortunate. Get out while you still have some humanity left ❤ I see you, and I'm rooting for you
Ladies, thank you so much for all the
Love and support. I’ve held on longer then I should I realize that now and I am letting go , no matter what that snake has to
Say it’s over. I am beyond heart broken and disgusted.
I think now would be a good time to tell him about the girl you spoke to, then tell him you tested positive for this. He can't blame you if he knows you know about how he's been spending his time away.
Keep your head up girly. I know it sucks but its curable and just tell her to get tested if you can avoid any contact with him i would but this coming from a momma who escaped DV.
I’m sorry you have to go through this. 😩 He is such a jerk to put you through this. I hate that this happened to you but I’m also glad that it isn’t something even worse. Thank god you found out on time.
He's not going to change. You and your son deserve better. You're lucky Chlamydia was the only thing he gave you. This should tell you he has no regard for your health and well being.
I’ve been following your story and I’m very sorry ur going through that! I hope you get better and Leave him if you haven’t already .! He’s never going to change if he’s cheated on u multiple times .! It might be hard because U love him and been with him for a long while but it’s best to let go or ur going to only be hurting urself by staying with someone like him .
Im so sorry girl. I was someone that cheated on me for the majority of our relationship with call girls/prostitutes. You deserve better.
I've been cheated on like 8 years ago. A little over 8. Let me tell ya. If he wants to change he will if he's truly sorry then he'll show it but never give a guy more than once chance. I do believe that some people can change and learn for it but if this is repetitive behavior leave him. It's definitely not you and he doesn't respect you one bit. You might love him but he doesn't love you or he wouldn't be treating you the way he is.
You deserve better. No one deserves to be treated like that
I remember your story, you deserve better. ❤️ are you still with him at this point?
Oh mama! This is so sad! I'm happy you got tested and got answers fast. Thank God it didn't go undetected and you can take medication to get rid of it. This could be much worse!!! Please say good bye and move on with your life. He didn't make a mistake. He mad e a deliberate choice to put your life at risk. And if he gave you something worse it could affect your children. Run!!! Big hugs and prayers!!! I'm so sorry!!!
Honey, please tell me you aren’t still with him. You don’t deserve this.
I feel so sick, well I guess it was this or a girl saying she was pregnant 🤷🏻♀️ I give him a year before someone is pregnant. I always wanted him to change and love me the way I loved him. I know it’s not me it’s him but it doesn’t feel like it.
I am so sorry. :( I was just thinking of you today and wondered how you were. Thank God it is treatable and you found out.
I’ve seen your story but never wanted to comment because I’ve never really talked to you on here. But I just want to reach out and say I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. You deserve so much better then that and one day you’ll get it. And if I lived near you I’d so punch him in the face for you.
I feel the same with everything you just said. I’ve never really talked to her either but I feel for her. 💔
I’ve seen your story but never wanted to comment because I’ve never really talked to you on here. But I just want to reach out and say I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. You deserve so much better then that and one day you’ll get it. And if I lived near you I’d so punch him in the face for you.