Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Mandy·
He sounds insecure but that may not be a bad thing.
Amanda··
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Hes mentioned how he is insecure. I just don't want him to get thr wrong impression. That we ARENT talking talking but just talking as friends at the moment. It's only been a week and I know my last relationship he went way to fast and I ignored every damn red flag. Blinded by love and now I know those were all red flags and I know what it looks like now.
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
Sounds like a loser no offense 😂 but that’s weird I would just play it cool if a guy chases you cool but don’t chase back and let him wonder because he sounds desperate
Amanda··
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@massgirl that's a good way at putting it. Sometimes the desperate or the way to nice of a guy is te guy who will literally be about you and then ones who are true in what he says
Mandy··
exactly. My ex husband was so full of himself I couldn't help but bring him down to try to humble him...my current husband is THE BIGGEST dork ( he was too nervous to kiss me on the THIRD date lol) but he was the polar opposite of all the guys I had been with so I gave him a chance. Our marriage certainly isn't perfect but it's night and day compared to all my other relationships plus because he's a dork he's extremely successful for his age. Not many 29 year olds have been making six figures since they were 25 but he does.
Amanda··
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wow that's great
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Tell him you just wanna be friends and nothing more right now.
For only a week, kinda going fast and if your not feeling that click. Than I’d slow it down or you will land up right back in the same situation ive been there it’s not fun
Amanda··
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I do that's the thing then this happened and its just making me want to slow down a little just because of this conversation
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idk, me personally I would walk away. And just move on.
AJ·
Lol oh man he seems confused like if he wants to stop getting to know you but then at the same time he’s like oh maybe I’ll stick around to give you a kiss and hug.
Amanda··
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Never thought about it like that.
mybabybear ·
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This would scare me and put me off. If he knows about your past at least your ex and that you’re scared he shouldnt pressure you in any way especially since it’s been a week. Listen to your gut. I mean I appreciate his honesty but I wouldn’t want to be with someone who has insecurities like this. It might get more serious down the line and it’s draining.
Amanda··
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That's true. He doesnt know about what happened really with with my ex that's something I rather not talk about. But imi think it's a good idea to let him know after reading this comment.
AJ·
@anicole3285, do you like him so far? I hate that he seems like he doesn’t know what he wants like he’s indecisive. Like he wants to get to know you with one foot in but the other foot is out. 🤦🏻♀️ I hate when guys are like that. I had to deal with this kind of behavior a lot before. One time I wasted 2 months on a guy like that. At first he seemed really interested and then he complained that I was too strong on him saying I made the first move when he was the one who kissed me first. I felt really offended by that and repulsed by his behavior that I backed off completely. He complained after about how come I don’t text back or call back. They play games. 😂 I was so mad when that happened. It’s up to you if you want to go through with this but just be prepared Incase he flakes. I wasted my 20’s on people like that. When I got fed up with dating and the mind games that some guys were playing, I stayed alone and didn’t date sometimes for a year or more.
Amanda··
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I know exactly what you mean. So did I. Got to a point where I was the one doing that and no strings and every thing till I met my ex (daughters dad) now I don't even know how to act lol. Been with him a little over 4 years. The first 2 days we talked above it didbt seem forced at all. Now it seems like something switched. Not sure what it is exactly unless it's his insecurities but I'm also not rushing into or even feeling mad or sad about it. It's been a week. Not long enough to feel anything of that nature lol
AJ·
@anicole3285, I really do hope that you will find someone who is worth it! I hate when guys don’t know what they want and say they are interested but then could walk away easily. So far I’ve been with my bf for 3 years. I didn’t ever think that I would have a good relationship. All I had were guys playing mind games with me when I was trying to get to know them. My previous relationships, I would get cheated on. It never went anywhere or was ever serious. The longest relationship I ever had before my bf was for a year other wise it was stupid things that only lasted a week, a month and maybe a few months if I was lucky. Sometimes I just stayed single for a few years. It was a lot of headaches and a few times heart aches lol. If things end with my bf one day, I would stay single for a long time. Not only because I would have to heal from the heartbreak and slowly trying to move on, I wouldn’t want to feel like I’m wasting time with someone. It is hard to find a decent person.
Amanda··
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Definitely hard to find a decent one. And I appreciate that I'm glad you found one worth it. Thinking this guy I'm talking to you isnt. Hes on the same shit as everyone else it seems. Ag least I didnt invest any hard feelings and I'm more cautious now my last relationship I can thank for that