How to Handle a Teen's Risky Behavior Despite Good Parenting?
I always been a caring mom, always teaching my kids values, there's no drugs or violence in my house. My kods get excellent grades and are not disrespectful to us or anyone else. I just realized my almost 15 year old girl was cutting school and breaking in people's houseswoth other teens/ smoking and hanging out with another teenager who is a gang member. The school is trashy and they never noticed anything. I found out of all this because she was texting a friend and also telling this guy he can jump the backyard fence and sneak in the house in the middle of the night. Im very frustrated. I don't know how to punish her cause taking her phone away is not going to be the only punishment.
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I would definitely install a window chime. They can be found on Amazon for $20 or less. Definitely have her get a part-time job or volunteer this summer to keep her busy. Get in touch with the school counselor to find out if she's behind. If the school was affected by covid-19 then that may be why you never found out. Honestly if this was my child I would have her in therapy so fast. She's crying out for help, probably has a low self-esteem and is looking to be accepted by her peers (bad peers doesn't matter) which is normal for her age. She needs a new direction though before she heads further on this path. Maybe you can find her a mentor or something.
Take out everything from her room except for her bed and give her just one pair of clothes to wear to school every day for 2 weeks (she washes them every day if she wants to have clean clothes) and if you can afford it put some alarms on the windows. Drive and walk her into school every morning and pick her up. And have her volunteer cleaning out horse stalls or cleaning up at an animal shelter after school.
That's what my parents did when my sister decided to be a jackass when she was a teenager. It straightened her up real quick.
When my sister had to earn back the privileges she took for granted and she slowly got them back
Also maybe she should be the one responsible for preparing and cleaning up after dinner
I wish I had friends that I could go out with and take our kids out to play or aquariums or something lol me and my kids are always in the house.. It would be nice to go out sometimes 😆
I’m thinking of pull my daughter from her school and into home school because of the sex Ed coming to her school. How is home schooling.?
So i just had to fall off with my sister for the simple fact me n my baby father got into a disagreement so the first thing he does is run over to my sisters house which i dont understand he always knocking on her door tho out of respect for me my sister should not allow him in her house especially if hes beening disrespectful to me. So its 12:33 am and hes over her house mind u she dates his friend which hes not round at moment.. Shes walking around with her draws out all the time what respect ...
So fucking pissed. My niece drew all over my daughters wall in her playroom. I tell my sister about it and she had the nerve to fucking laugh. If that were my daughter and she did that to her house I'd be paying for new painted walls!! then had the nerve to say "she's only two". (She's allowed to do that at their house) well here she got her ass busted and put in time out until her mother gets here. Now I have to figure out how get this crayon off the damn walls with out them being ruined. fml...
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Boy house problems - the boys bathroom always smelling like pee always - I just cleaned tf out of it with bleach I still smell it 😩
Thank you ladies so much